Trying something new. In a couple of past Dom/sub relationships we added gaming to our quality time list as an extension of our dynamic. These days I feel like starting smaller and expanding outward might be a better approach. So let's see what we come up with. I currently live in Asia, 12 hours ahead of US East, and my mornings are my most consistently free time for gaming. That translates to US evenings which sounds like a good fit considering the vast majority of reddit is American (I am too but I left the US 4.5 years ago). How would it work? Well we'd chat a bit, get to know each other and see how we vibe and if we have any mutual kink & game interest. We'd pick a game or too and sketch out a schedule for us to play the game and in-game, to start, I'll have control over you. We can expand that to out-of-game if and when we prefer which could take a while or not. Every relationship is different, right?

As a Dom I take a very patient approach. I communicate plans clearly, I check in to make sure goals aren't beyond your comfort levels or ability, and I welcome and encourage any and every question you may have at any time. As long as it's asked respectfully, of course. I'm intelligent and empathetic but suffer from a lack of creativity outside of kink. I don't know why but in my D/s dynamics my creativity can flourish, but outside of it not so much. Oh well! In terms of brattiness I have to say I'm not interested in the disobedient types who cross lines to intentionally be punished. I prefer praise over punishment and being manipulated is a mood killer lol. I do enjoy sassiness, playful banter, and verbal sparring. "Actions speak louder than words" is true, so if your version of being a "brat" is to give sass and banter while obeying, bring it girl.

As a gamer I play a variety of stuff. Competitive stuff not so much, but maybe on occasion. I play on PC (Steam) and do have a Switch I almost never use. Coop/Multi/MMO games I enjoy, or am interested in duoing in, are: Elder Scrolls Online, PSO 2, Mechwarrior 5, Palworld, Final Fantasy 14, Paladins, Marvel Snap. I have a ton of untouched stuff in my steam library as well so maybe you've got a different list and something will catch my attention.

In terms of kink, my main interests are orgasm control (denial and forced, so having a wifi toy is a huge bonus for us), wardrobe control, speech control, mental & emotional exploration, verbal degradation, light pet play, toys, light bondate, light impact play, and bimbofication during play. I've had about 4 serious Dom/sub dynamics over the past 6.5 years and I'm only interested in something genuine, consistent, and long-term. I have zero interest in quickies, one night stands, or short term hookup arrangements. For full transparency (which is an essential part of honest communication) I am ethically non-monogamous and in a 12 year relationship. Me having sub partners is not a secret and me having a long term vanilla partner is also not a secret. Understandable if that's a dealbreaker for you.

I feel like I've forgotten to include a bunch of shit, idk, so if you read this and thought I didn't include something relevant or important, let me know and I can edit it into the post.

Also, duh, message me if you're interested of course. :p