Hello! I am a long time, experienced kinkster (the entire time I've been sexually aware/active) and really need a regular Dominant partner in my life. I enjoy all aspects of the BDSM acronym, with a soft spot for power exchange (duh), pain, degradation, and bondage (especially rope). I love impact play (thuddy supremacy), boots, watersports, pussy stretching, consensual non-consent, and obviously ageplay.

I'm generally very open minded, and I tend to be turned on by what turns my partner on, so really there's many things I'll try, and a relatively short list of hard limits. (Primary limits are any sort of public play/exhibitionism in non-sexual settings (play parties are more than fine), impregnation/breeding fantasies, and orgasm denial/chastity/edging.) As a sub I'm extremely obedient/eager to please (not a brat at all), and very expressive/reactive physically. In my humble opinion I'm very fun to play with and would be the goodest girl for the right person.

My kink list is here if you want an embarrassingly deep dive: https://kinkli.st/9ULUp

Physically, I'm very short, pale, and pretty significantly overweight. I'd like to work on that, and honestly in my wildest dreams I'd have a 24/7-ish dynamic with my Dom to help me build healthier habits, but currently it is what it is. If you are attracted to bigger women (which I'd certainly hope you would be if you're going to reach out to me), I definitely have an enjoyable body type; extremely busty, thick thighs and ass, cute tummy. I have a somewhat alternative look, piercings, tattoos, funky colored hair, etc.

I am looking, above all, to form an ongoing dynamic anchored around power exchange. Whether that's just as play partners or something more romantic would depend on how things go and our compatibility, but I would just say that ongoing DDlg/MDlg dynamics have an inherent level of intimacy due to the nature of the play, and you have to at least be open to that. I am 100% polyamorous and not looking for monogamy under any circumstances. That said, apart from some casual play partners, my dance card is quite open. I have no other Dom, and honestly I do mostly just want my one special person.

As for you, I'm very open minded; race, gender identity, body type, etc. aren't really concerns of mine. All I ask is that you be 25-55ish, and have a decent level of experience with kink. I've been at this for a long time and my interests trend a bit advanced to pursue with a newbie. In order for us to play as often as I'd ideally like, it would be best if you were local to the Triangle, but for the right person I'm sure we could make a bit more distance work.