Perhaps this is unconventional, but I’m not seeking my person, not looking for an all out relationship, just after a kinky someone I can be friends with and explore dynamics as things develop.

What does that mean? Well, ideally, someone I can talk to like a friend, who is also comfortable sharing kinks, exploring fantasies and potentially playing, again, once we’ve gotten to that point. No one is calling anyone master, daddy, whatever, straight out of the gate. That never goes well.

I want to get to know you, cultivate a space where we both feel safe, and find the dynamic and flow that works best for us. As a dominant, I tend to focus on my sub’s pleasure. I can shift between styles, from more strict to soft. All depends on your needs. My sub side is a bit more specific and a little more vulnerable. In some ways, I’m similarly all about my domme’s pleasure, but the boundaries are firmer. I’m open to sharing that side with you once we get to know each other and feel good about where we are at.

Okay, serious stuff out of the way. I promise I’m not some rigid jerk who can’t have fun. I’m a bit of a smart ass who can’t resist playful banter when the opportunity arises. I like to describe myself as a well rounded nerd. Talk to me about anything nerdy, anything at all! I may not know about it all but I love to learn. But also talk to me about the books you’re reading, shows you’re watching, what you had for lunch. I’m here for it all. Working out, photography, nature. All things I enjoy. Honestly, there are few things I don’t like doing and fewer things I wouldn’t at least try once.

You can probably get all you need about my physical appearance off my profile. As for you, I’m open to everyone, all body types, looks, whatever. Just be a nice person and I won’t have any issues being attracted to you.

Okay, made it through all that? I haven’t scared you off yet? Fantastic. Send me a chat or a message, tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we might vibe. I’m looking forward to getting to know some of you better! And don’t worry, I don’t bite, hard…