I'm a trans male, if it wasn't made clear. If you consider yourself straight or see me as a girl. Please do not contact me. It's extremely degrading and very dehumanizing to not be seen as a guy when 98% of people irl assume I'm a guy from my appearance and voice. It doesn't stop because I'm online. (Sorry that I sound harsh, it's just a occurrence that has happened so much that I don't want to feel ashamed and embarrassed again)

I've been looking for a Dom for awhile. And I've been hurt really badly trying to find someone. I've been led on probably around 7 times and I'm only counting the times I spent multiple days talking to them. I've been led on and ghosted and my self esteem is very damaged and low. And I feel very lost.

I think the best way to describe the Dom I want is called a Daddy Dom. I've also been told that a Caregiver is the term as well. I'm not a little to my knowledge, I do have some similarities but I don't prefer the term. But the Dom I've been told that I'm looking for is the Dom that littles normally have.

I'm looking for a Dom around my age. I've said before the age range of (18-25) but the people who have messaged me usually were almost double my age. So I haven't really been known to reject conversation with older men. But I really would prefer it if it was someone around my age. Also you don't have to be cis male. I just wanted to make it clear I'm very open to having a trans male Dom as well.

I have a lot of kinks but the main one is Pet play specifically I'm a Bunny. I really like doing tasks, it helps me a lot to kind of shut off my brain. I really like listening and rambling on about my favorite things. I like being praised for doing simple things because I know it sounds ridiculous but I sometimes struggle with doing the simplest things as you would put it. I have a hypersexuality disorder that has been worsening so the need of a Dom has become way more needed. I struggle to take care of myself like maintaining my hygiene, specifically brushing my teeth. I sometimes don't shower for days (I need to shower almost every single day to look actually clean. I have very oily hair). And I barely drink any liquid at all, especially not water. I love being praised and spoiled. I guess I'm just looking for someone to help take care of me and not abandon me I guess. I really like listening and I'm usually always available unless I'm working or sleeping which I never really sleep.

My strict nos are -Sexual phone calls -Pictures of my front genitalia

The phone call thing may change in the future but I get extremely dysphoric when taking pictures of my front genitalia so it's probably not going to be soon in the future. Anything else is on the table though. I have taken many photos and videos of myself. Usually I don't have many limits except those two

Please if you contact me, don't lead me on or ghost me. It's been a pattern of people saying they'll take care of me but I get left alone wondering what I did wrong. And most of the time, I never get an explanation. I just get left alone hoping the next person I meet doesn't abuse me and leave me when he doesn't want to help me anymore.