I’m a dom with a thing for Asian girls, and an even bigger thing for Asian girls who are into white men.

I love D/s dynamics that make the racial hierarchy that is implicit in our society, lurking just beneath the surface, explicit. I’m very aware of the subtle privilege I have as a white man. I enjoy knowing that men who look like me are the default image your mind involuntarily conjures up when you think about attractiveness, about power, about success. I love that you can’t help it even though you know better. I love even more that you’re willing to submit and actively choose to be a participant in it. This isn’t about being crude or demeaning to you for your race, nor do I see you as inferior. What I want is something much more subtle than that.

I’m a 30 year old man and work as an attorney. I would consider myself successful and good at what I do. I’ve been told I’m attractive. Physically, I’m 6’2 tall and in good shape. I’m into photography (but still pretty new!), hiking, climbing, reading, more frequent lord of the rings marathons than is healthy, and social gaming (cards, board games, pc games, etc). Being able to hold intelligent conversation and intellectual curiosity are both important to me. As a dom, I’m into a lot of kinks outside of raceplay that I’d prefer to discuss with you in conversation. If you’re into something, there’s a good chance I am too.

I’m looking for someone younger than me who also takes care of their body and won’t be shy about putting it on display for me when I demand it of them. If sending photos is a limit for you, I’m not your man. Someone smart and capable who is open to this turning into something meaningful and long term, and who will bring her own passion and personality to our relationship. As my post title suggests, it would be fantastic if you had a raceplay kink, or at least a thing for white men that you’d be open to me building on to broaden your horizons.

If you’re interested, chat me!