About me

Hi! I’m currently a college student (in my last semester!) in the US. I’m the sort of person no one in my life would expect to be posting something like this- reserved, bookish, introverted, inquisitive, etc. I enjoy a lot of hobbies that would classically be described as boring, think reading, writing, crocheting, and things along those lines. I definitely wouldn’t describe myself as a “gamer,” but I’ve sunk way too much time into Baldur’s Gate 3 and am currently repeating the cycle with Divinity 2. I love long, introspective conversations and I probably laugh too much. Can you tell yet that I’m terrible at writing about myself?

I’m very independent and very good at taking care of myself, but I occasionally enjoy handing some of the reins over to someone else which is where you come in. I’m a bit bratty, not so much in a “make me” way but in more of a pushing buttons and seeing what I can get away with way. I like to be clever but then be beaten at my own game. Trusting someone else to take control is something I take rather seriously, and I would want you to as well. That trust, along with respect, honesty, and clear communication are paramount.

About what I’m looking for

This post is more so me casting a net and seeing if I get a catch than it is me urgently seeking any connection I can get. I’m not looking for anything shallow or meaningless. I personally don’t find value in that, and potential for growth is necessary for me.

Boxing in exactly what I want a romantic connection to look like is difficult. I am exclusively monogamous. Something comfortable, sweet, playful, but deeply meaningful and vulnerable. I also insist on leaving room for silliness.

I would much rather leave discussion of kinks and such for a private conversation, but I will say that I’m not interested in TPE style dynamics or dynamics that would involve dehumanizing me. I’m much more aligned with the nurturing, caring side of BDSM and D/s relationships.

I tend to connect well with those who are older than me and have significant experience in this realm, but I don’t have a specific age range that I’m looking for. I love funny, intelligent, and caring people who are really good at communicating and have developed a high level of emotional maturity. I would love to communicate over voice calls when it feels comfortable!

If you like what you’ve read and think we might be a good match, please shoot me a message! I won’t respond to messages that lack effort or that are clearly copy/pasted simply because that’s not what I’m looking for. Thanks! :)