Hi,
It’s been a while but I’m hopeful that somewhere out there is someone exactly what I’m looking for, my other half.
Heads up, I’m only looking for people 23-30 :) Also, I’m tall (5.8) and skinny if that matters lol
About me: Hi, I’m Marie. I’m from Scandinavia (north Western Europe). I’m 23 years old and currently studying for a bachelors in history online whilst working part time, but I also have a bachelors in film from when I used to live in the UK.
Due to the current housing market and student loans, I’m currently living at home to save up money and to pay off my student loans. But my dream is to one day to own my own home and work as a teacher. That or to become a successful author. Who knows where I’ll end up though.
Whenever I’m not working I’m usually reading, listening to music (I’m literally listening to music right now), watching something on my projector, playing the sims, or writing. Though if I’m being honest, I’ve been really bad at doing the latter. Let’s just say I haven’t met most of my reading goals since June. Oops
So, on to what you’re here for. Why make this post? For as long as I can remember I’ve known I craved a different kind of relationship, but I can’t pinpoint an exact moment where it really clicked for me. Maybe it was when I first discovered bdsm through fanfiction when I was younger, or maybe it was after the end of my last vanilla relationship.
So what am I looking for? If I had to describe myself kink wise, it would be to say I’m a mix between a little and a slave with brat tendencies. I crave the attention and care of a little. Ask me about my day, set rules for me and keep me in line with punishments. If I’m acting childish, treat me like the child I am acting like. You’re never too old for a good old spanking or even something as humiliating as getting your mouth washed out with soap. Even if I’ll hate it. Help me make choices on what to have for dinner, on what to name my book characters, which fun socks to pick out for work, limit my spending by making rules on what I can spend money on etc. Help me get rid of bad habits, and talk to me whenever I’ve had a bad day and just need comfort. At the same time, I want someone who isn’t afraid to treat me like nothing but an object for their sexual pleasure. Use me. If you’re a bit of a sadist too, even better. Train me to be your fuck toy, your real life fuck doll. Also, ideally I’d want someone who can work with my timezone and who isnt just looking for something short term. Also, if this becomes serious I’d ideally want someone who wants children one day and who’s willing to live in my country as I unfortunately have a condition that requires me to see a research doctor every so often so it would be expensive to travel back and forth for that. (Other than the doctors visits the condition doesn’t affect me. They’re just to check I’m okay and not dying lol).
So to sum it up, I want someone who makes decisions and holds me accountable 24/7, but the sexual aspect doesn’t need to be 24/7 unless you want it to be. But whenever needed I’ll be your sex doll that you’ve trained to please you however needed. I want you to set rules and punishments, and to show that you care by enforcing them.
As for my kinks: I’m a major people pleaser. Like MAJOR. So for me I enjoy serving and pleasing wayyyy more than being pleased. So my main kink is probably that. Pleasing. That also means that if you want a chastity slave, I honestly don’t mind it at all.
Other than that I really enjoy: Spankings (hand, cane, belt, flogger, whip etc), pain, anal training/stretching, orgasm denial, edging, nipple play, humiliation, degradation, bondage, gags, rules and punishments, latex, sensory deprivation, pet play, ddlg and so much more. That’s honestly just the tip of the iceberg. If it ain’t in my limits it’s not off limits basically.
So for hard limits I have: Blood, scat, gore, anything permanent, anything to do with changing my appearance drastically (like plastic surgery or even changing my diet against my nutritionist’s recommendations) anything illegal, and face slapping. My back is also off limits cause I have weirdly sensitive nerves back there.
As for soft limits: Body modifications such as piercings, tattoos, brands and so on, piss play, sending nsfw pictures and videos (will get there but you need to earn my trust basically) and feet
Anyways, if you’re still reading please feel free to send me a message. Include your favourite song at the moment, your age and your time zone in your message to show you’ve read everything or I won’t reply. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.
All the best, Marie
Also, here’s a list of some of my kinks if you’re curious:
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