hi, i'm Siasa

i'm a 21 year old trans lesbian (any women welcome, trans, cis, idc, just no men) looking for a dom mostly online in ERP, but am open to stuff IRL if things get serious and it's an option for you. i also have DID, or Dissociative Identity Disorder, so there's some complexity there as other Alters may also be interested in stuff, so, just keep that in mind before reading on.

i'm into a lotta more harsh and uncommon kinks like CNC, bondage stuff, piss (big kink), erotic hypnosis (huge kink), and then more usual ones like teasing (big kink), praise, degradation (big kink), embarrassment (huge kink), overstimulation, choking, spanking, oral, orgasm control (big kink), begging (big kink), and that's kinda all i can think about off the top of my head. limits are kinda simple, just scat & diapers

really i'm looking for a genuine FWB, like, a solid mix of friends kink dynamic, and solid boundaries for those. i'm equally interested in both, and i'm also open to doing some stuff IRL once there's trust, and maybe even dating IRL as well if that becomes an option we wanna pursue, but those are later conversations

i'm poly, and go for strictly open relationships as well, so if/when i get a partner, not much will change

i'm mostly looking for something solid and genuine. i have a hard time expressing a lot of who i am on these posts because i always feel i say too much or too little, which once you get to know me, i talk, a ton, i could talk the ear off a rock. i am huge into cybersecurity (hence my primary platform being Signal messenger, so that is a must for anything to work), i am extremely autistic, and i'm also really chaotic. i love video games and voice and video calls are great too most times, and playing video games while on calls is always really fun for me. i love selfies and video calls too because i have a photographic memory, so visual stuff really gets to me (especially nudes if you're comfy, and i've taken a few i'm quite happy with myself hehe). i also love music, and have a massive collection of songs and will almost always be able to share a song to express my mood. i also have a special interest in psychology, as well as a special interest in weapons like swords, axes, etc, and i also have another special interest in digital art, although that one's smaller

if you wanna get to know me and are interested, don't hesitate to reach out, and if you just wanna ask questions before deciding if you wanna stick around, especially about other kinks not mentioned here, please feel free to reach out via reddit. on a final note, i want to video call first before doing anything NSFW just for mutual identity confirmation (i'm into cybersec, whaddya expect?) so keep that in mind, and be ready to video call before we do anything.

i don't know how far this will go and i hope this is sufficient to get to know me, but if you have other questions, please do ask. i welcome them (as long as they're respectful)