Hello, dear potential submissive, I hope you're having a nice day! I'm looking to establish a BDSM dynamic, which would be entirely online for the time being. I have previous experience with such arrangements, but I also enjoy showing newbies the rope. So if you aren't sure whether BDSM is your cup of tea but my post interests you, feel free to message me. If you have previous experience, that's wonderful too. In any case, telling me your level of experience helps a lot in how much explaining/teaching I'd do in our interaction.

My attitude towards BDSM follows safe, sane and consensual standards and my style of domination is usually kind and gentle. I value your feedback and take it into account, aiming to create a dynamic that feels the best for both of us. While there's scenes and punishments where being strict or even harsh have their place, I want you to know that if we enter a dynamic I'll ultimately care for you and treat your submission like the gift it is. That also means that you set the pace in the beginning. While I might inquire about your dreams and fantasies, I won't push you for submission or anything similar until you signal me that you want to take things one step further. By then, I hopefully know enough about you to make your inner submissive melt with pleasure as we engage in a thriving dynamic.

On the kinky side, I like tasks, rules and rituals. Instead of simply listing some kinks, I want to list some specific examples that you could expect:

• Edging tasks, perhaps even as part of a broader training program that teaches you how to edge longer or more often. This can be especially fun if you're new to edging and we track your progress over the weeks. But even if you're experienced with edging, I often come up with fun games and challenges around it that hopefully help you to experience mind-blowing climaxes - whenever I grant you permission for them. These tasks can be done asynchronously or if we're in a similar time zones, I'd also be open to live instruction via text.

• Minor wardrobe control: This requires a bit of communication beforehand. Together, we'd pick one type of clothing or accessory (choker, necklace, bra/panties, socks...). Each day, I'd pick out the specific item you'd wear for the next day.

• Training in submission: There's all sorts of poses associated with submission, the most prominent one probably being kneeling. This lends itself well for rituals, e.g., you spend five minutes a day in a kneeling position while you keep a submissive journal. Whether I'd have access to that journal or if it's something entirely private to you is something we'd discuss together.

If you decide to message me, you can expect some initial getting-to-know-each-other banter, which isn't limited to kink only. In my experience, it's important to click with each other's personality on more than just the sexual level and I'd like to ensure that before we engage in any dynamic. After that I'm a big fan of incorporating some roleplay elements to verify expectations. It's a safe way to discuss and explore fantasies with each other other before we could subsequently or concurrently talk about how our own dynamic might look like.

A bit more about me: I've got a lot of introverted hobbies (reading, anime, video games, pen & paper... ), but I've also liked doing sports since my youth. So I'm also often doing something like running, yoga or visiting the gym. And at some point in my life I actually challenged myself to learn ballroom dancing, which has actually become a more social hobby for me by now. As for appearance, I'm 6'2 with lean and slightly muscular body. Short, dirty-blonde hair, blue eyes.

If you decide to message me, please put in a similar level of effort as I did with my introduction. First impressions are important, as you likely know.

Looking forward to hear from you!