Hi there!

About Me: 31 year old Canadian female. I’m a fairly active person who enjoys hiking, skiing, exercise classes, and hot yoga. I’m a huge foodie who loves to cook and bake, and try new restaurants. I’m adventurous and always open minded to trying something new, whether it’s a food I’ve never tried before or an activity. I don’t drink alcohol. I love to read, go on walks, and spend time with friends/family. I am very much a girly girl who enjoys shopping (especially consignment/thrift), getting my hair and nails done, and spending time planning my outfits and getting ready. I’m very social and outgoing and love a night out, but also love curling up on the couch, ordering in, and watching a scary movie or trashy reality TV. I don’t have any children, never married, no pets (but would love a dog!). I work in a professional job, that is by no means my passion but is something I am good at and pays the bills. I prioritize taking care of my mental and physical health. I drive and own my own vehicle.

Vanilla: I’m looking for a long term relationship that would eventually lead to marriage. Traditional gender roles are important to me; the Man is the leader, provider, and protector. The woman obeys and submits and makes his life easier and happier. I want to find my best friend, my soulmate, the person who knows me better than I know myself. Someone I can share every thought and feeling with, and who feels they can do the same with me. I’m a hopeless romantic and a bottomless pit of affection. I love to always be touching/be touched by my partner. However, a D/s dynamic always underlying this is very important to me, and why I’m looking here.

Kink: Some of my interests include orgasm control/denial, cuckquean, D/s, rimming, degradation, being tied up, rough sex (choking, spanking, hair pulling), CNC, and free use. I’d prefer we didn’t overly focus on these to start as I am much more than just my kinks.

I am very praise motivated and love nothing more than being called a good girl. I love pet names in general, and dirtier names in the bedroom. Aftercare is very important to me. As some of my kinks can be a bit rougher, I often require comfort and reassurance afterwards. I would consider myself open minded in the bedroom and willing to try most things once.

You: Please include a photo in your initial message as mutual attraction is important. I’ll be happy to reply with one. I am open to different locations, as I know what I am looking for is rare to find, and don’t want to restrict myself from an amazing connection based on location. Extra bonus points if you have an English, Scottish, or Irish accent though. Ideally you are romantic, thoughtful, and a good listener. It’s important to me that you are a confident and emotionally intelligent Man; I cannot give myself over to submission if I can’t trust that you are capable of leading and guiding and making the best decisions for us. Everyone has issues, but taking care of your mental health and being able to open up is very important to me. You have a good career, as I am looking for a real future with someone, and like to drive, because I hate it. You are a naturally Dominant Man who also wants to find their forever person for more than just a D/s dynamic, but would also feel unsatisfied with a strictly vanilla relationship.

I appreciate if you took the time to read all this! ☺️