Hey! I am a trans girl submissive and looking for some help. Someone to talk to or more? I would love to find myself a D/s Dynamic. But i never seem to actually get there with someone. And i know there are things i do wrong. I am socially pretty awkward, I have my trust issues and get scared away quickly. Or I take to long to for the other person and they leave me.
For BDSM and romance is connected heavily so it is at the same time a search for a relationship. BDSM is also a topic that is connected with a lot of shame for me, since either grew up very religious. Discovered the world of bdsm early on in my life and felt so guilty. Now that i am outside the religion even years after i still find myself effected.
But I don’t just wanna talk about negative stuff! I love this lifestyle with all my heart! My most beloved kink is Bondage, i wish i could be tied up every day. I really want to build myself a life where i can serve my partner and Dom everyday. That would be my ultimate dream. We share some hobbies like gaming or anime. (i am such a nerd) And our passion for the lifestyle. But not only as Dom and sub but also Best friends and lovers. That is what i am really hoping for. For that i would love everything behind.
I just don’t know how to get there would prefer to go from Friends to D/s to lovers. Maybe i am to slow to trust people.
I hope i can maybe meet someone patient, i can build trust and confide in. And see if something comes from it. So feel free to write me that would mean alot to me. (really short messages like “hey“ will be ignored since there are way to many people who don’t actually read these posts.
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