Okay! So I've read quite a few ads on here now and can tell its pretty tough to be informative yet succinct, personable but not oversharey, and still manage to get across some personality. I will give it my best shot!!

I'm a 25yo soft dom from the UK, currently living in the south of England. I'm in a really good place in my life at the moment, starting lots of new things and generally feeling pretty happy! The only thing missing now, I feel, is someone special to share it all with :) Ideally that person would be somewhat near to me (I'm a few hours from London but am thinking/dreaming of moving there) although I think something online could potentially work with the right person.

As someone who is given energy by learning new things I'm constantly trying to juggle a bunch of hobbies), diving deeper into interests, and interacting with people, I'd ideally want a partner who is open minded and bubbly! ( A person who gets excited to share stories from their day or something new they've learnt or gotten into, and also would like to hear similar back from me. To give you an idea of things you might here about...here are some bullet points:

• Plants! I think my new big longterm interest is growing and learning about plants/flowers. I don't have a garden or allotment (yet) so am focusing on learning indoor stuff for now, but I love going to flower markets and learning from everyone there!
• Nerdy stuff! I like video games, anime, TV shows (Adventure Time etc) and will happily go into lore dump monologues if you let me. I also like reading books about materials/textiles and colour :)
• I don't wanna keep writing little blurbs sooo here's a list: baking/cooking, fashion, music, giving gifts, hiking and camping, sports, and exploring cities to find hidden gems.

Now...I guess since this is BDSMPersonals, I should talk about kink a little. I really love it! I could have probably added into the bullet points above as something I really enjoy having deep dive discussions about. I'm very much a laid back and calm person, which bleeds into my style as a dom. I'm certainly soft, and perhaps even somewhat of a pleasure dom, but absolutely 100% dominant! I'd probably want someone who is similarly open as a sub, who likes to play around with the dynamic (mutual teasing, playfulness etc) and form something very fluid and predominately fun :)

Oh! And appearance, if that matters. I'm white, 6'0, and broad shouldered. I walk a lot and play sports, so I'm reasonably fit without being a gym fiend or anything :p I'm very much attracted to femininity, elegance, and most importantly confidence! I think style goes a long way (I'm still defining my own!).

I'd love to hear about you, rather than just whitter on about myself for any longer. Something about your favourite flowers or baking recipes or something would be a nice addition :) Thanks for reading!