Exactly what the title says. I’ll take you there, keep you there, make you beg, release the tension (or deny), repeat - then take advantage of your weakened body.

I am looking for a woman who WANTS this IRL, and is willing to help (open communication) and allow (interest and enthusiasm) me to take her there - if that is not you then I respect that and I hope you find what you are looking for.

951 area, IE.

Full disclosure: I may end up moving a little further west in the next couple of years and may end up moving again in 5-10 years (both due to my career plan), so if you are looking for an LTR, please keep that in mind.

TL/DR:

• I’m smart, creative, reasonable, and responsible.

• If you have similar interests and are willing to put in time and effort; I am willing to focus my time, energy, and attention on making you feel the way you want to feel.

• Can be as simple as “we meet up regularly on weekends to have a good time and that’s all” - can be as in-depth as rules/protocols/schedules/check-ins, etc. if that is what you are into. I would prefer to meet someone open to a middle-ground between the two and see where things go; but am certainly up for the first with the right partner.

• Not interested in online-only or LDR - no judgment, just not what I am looking for.

The most important stuff:

• You deserve the confidence that I will respect your boundaries/limits, communicate with you directly/openly/honestly, that I will respond appropriately to safe words, and that I will use a safe word when warranted; and I deserve the same.

• We will meet at a neutral public location for our first in-person encounter where we can just talk, see if we vibe, and get to know each other a little - It is about a safe, fun, exciting experience and I want both of us to feel comfortable.

• I am available to host when we are ready (I live in an apartment if that matters in your considerations).

• We will compromise about our mutual interests and will establish limits and safe words prior to any play. I will provide after-care as agreed upon by both of us.

About me:

White male, brown hair and eyes, 5'8", HWP, STD/STI free (expect the same).

I am an experienced Dom (10 years, although I have not participated in munches or community activities/events and my experience has been mostly with one partner so my style may be very different from others’), continually researching and learning.

I am ambitious, educated, confident, successful, and excel at pretty much anything I focus my attention on. I exercise often, and am an artist in my spare time.

In my normal life I am on the goofy/nerdy side and you would probably describe me as an introverted extrovert - I’m pretty reserved and don’t typically go out of my way to meet new people or do things outside of my normal routine, but once there I usually enjoy and try to add to the experience.

I have an edited picture on my profile to give you an idea of what I look like. We will exchange clear pictures early - if the attraction isn't there no harm, no foul.

Seeking:

• A single woman (not into married, ENM, Poly, etc.)
• 25
• Shorter than me
• Skinny/HWP/curvy/a little extra
• Available to meet at least a couple of Saturdays and/or Sundays a month.
• Willing to be communicative (it will not work otherwise)
• Willing to meet in person early on I'm not saying we have to “jump in” physically early on, just that I want to meet in person. We can also video chat online before meeting.

About you:

My ideal partner would enjoy dressing up in naughty outfits for me, roleplaying with me in some type of CNC/power exchange/quid-pro-quo, etc. scenario; aftercare, debrief, rest and relax [insert food and activity here] then a less intense round 2 (if we are up for it) or just chill out together.

If you identify as a service sub, a pet, or a brat - we will discuss and incorporate activities/dynamics that support your identity.

I am okay with most experience levels as long as you know what you want and it aligns with my interests (if your experience exceeds mine, that's great! I enjoy learning new things), and am willing to take things relatively slow and put in the effort that this type of activity necessitates.

For LTR: a driven woman who knows what she wants, enjoys movies (particularly scary, action, MCU, Harry Potter, Jurassic Park, etc.), is cool with the fact that I need time to myself, down for double income with no kids, and is just as twisted as me (warm, sweet, caring, and compassionate; but absolutely filthy) - would be wonderful.

MUST enjoy/be okay with:

• Cuddles
• Having hair pulled
• Consensual harassment
• Multiple orgasms
• Orgasm control
• Oral, vaginal, and anal penetration

Some of my kinks:

Toys, CNC, Roleplay, light bondage (restraints and some rope - no blood cutoff), power exchange, degradation/humiliation, objectification, and light impact play (spanking, light slapping, light paddles) - [We will dive deeper the more we get to know each other]

My limits include:

Impact play heavier than identified above, sharps, breeding, anything permanent, bathroom stuff, blood, vomit, choking, breath play, and real weapons.

If this interests you, send me a message with:

1. A picture of yourself (it can be slightly blurred, face blocked, etc.),
2. Your age and location (area code, or zip code is perfect)
3. A little bit about yourself & what being a sub means to you and;
4. A question or two that you have for me which will help you determine whether or not we are compatible (family and work off limits for now)

Be prepared to picture-verify and to discuss your interests, kinks, and limits.