I’m looking for a Daddy who is naturally paternal, strict, and dominant, so much so that it is evident to everyone around you. I like to test my partners to see how much I can get away with, and I’m good at reading people. It will be hard to genuinely submit to you if you're easy to throw off balance. It’s important to me that our dynamic is woven into everything we do and that there is no on or off switch. I believe in reciprocal pleasure and am not interested in being an unsatisfied slave in a relationship that emulates the gender pleasure gap. I love to please and hope to be with a partner who finds as much joy in pleasing as I me.

Physically I’m fit, small chested, have piercings and tattoos, long red hair, and a soft-featured face. I’m passionate, emotional, reflective, and strong-willed. Despite all these things, I want to be able to relinquish control and follow the word of an intelligent and principled Daddy. I want you to support my growth and genuinely guide me to things that are good for me. I want us to uplift one another, with a deep ownership component, so that even when we’re apart, my stomach is still filled with butterflies over the things you’ve said to me. I'm most attracted to those with deep smooth voices and fit/slender bodies. I also love someone who displays possessiveness, jealousy, intensity and confidence. I’m looking for a Daddy who wants to support my academic journey and who will push me to succeed when I’m not pushing myself. I want us to integrate our lives and am very willing to relocate within the next two years.

I’m into TPE, praise, rules, punishments, choking/slapping/spanking, light DDLG, teasing, light misogyny play, humiliation, mental/emotional domination, honorifics, etc...I'm a firm believer in constantly growing and evolving. I'm also potentially interested in a partner who wants a close say in my appearance. I've been thinking about some conservative plastic surgery for a while and hopefully, you'd be accepting of that (slight bimboification vibes with this). I want to ask you for permission to speak to people in public; you order for us at restaurants without allowing me to order for myself; we have body language signals in public to keep me in check; I'm expected to hold your hand whenever we're in public, etc. Maybe I'll even have a necklace with your name on it. I absolutely will not do anything with non-monogamy, heavy pain, permanent markings, or scat. Seeing that I'm seeking a LTR, I will also note I do not want children and am hoping to find a partner with whom I can build a life. I'm deeply grappling with my kinks (which have probably been impacted by watching porn at a young age), and also struggle with the idea of a man who finds it arousing to cause harm to his partner. For these reasons, we need to deeply connect and talk in-depth about these things before jumping in. I'm also someone who cannot get turned on until we have formed an emotional connection. Picture collectors and people who lose their cool when they’re horny need not message. I need someone who is relentlessly in control, even when they’re on the brink of orgasm. I never want to feel like I have power over you; I will run with that and you’ll never get it back.

I love people who are open to learning, and humble enough to admit when they said/did something harmful/wrong. I need someone empathetic, open-minded and left-leaning. If you believe that gender is innate and not a socialization process, you don’t believe patriarchy exists, are on red pill YouTube, are a pro-lifer, anti-sex worker, or have ever referred to women as slurs, please do not reach out. I AM open to exploring light misogyny play simply because it angers me so much that it’s almost a turn-on.

Please message me about what stood out for you and how it aligns with what you’re looking for. I hope you are trauma-informed/ considerate and understanding of emotional/mental health. I have body dysmorphia and CPTSD and need someone who is grounding, has a strong presence, and deeply reaffirming.

Attraction is important and I prefer to share SFW photos within the first few messages to respect one another's time. I want to be with someone who adores and dotes on me and wants to make me feel special beautiful and loved.

Here’s a link to my kink list: https://i.imgur.com/jNaict2.png