\*Full Disclosure, I have made posts on this subreddit in the past with some success, so I am broadening my search by removing some requirements. Knock on wood.***
My name is Will. I am a Sadistic Top based out of NJ (Central coast area) and looking for a playmate that enjoys being tied up.
About Me:
I am Asian (born USA), 30, straight, enjoy good food, drink and the company of a great companion. I am also nerdy and enjoy games and binging movies and shows while I am doing my cardio (Currently going through The Bear, Modern family, Orville, Band of Brothers, and a bit of SpyXFamily). I work full time, but I am remote so I have plenty of free time. Anything that stimulates the eyes and ears, I am all for, which would explain some of my kinks and fetishes.
In terms of BDSM, as mentioned before, I identify as a Sadistic Top. I enjoy bondage, light to hard impact play, disciplining, and domination. However, I am not an extreme Sadist, I do have my boundaries. For example I only play with consenting partners, by the rules, within limits, and keep everything sanitary (no blood, no disease, no poop). That said, I do enjoy pushing my partner, making her cry, and build a level of trust through my play style. I intermingle pain with pleasure. I know not many are interested in pain play, or are fond of playing with someone who identifies as sadistic, which is why that is not the main reason I am here.
What I am looking for?:
The main reason for this post is to find a Rope Bunny. Bondage is one of my kinks, but I am not that experienced with it. I have practiced with myself before, but it gets not as motivating if I am only tying myself. So hopefully I am looking to find a partner in NJ (or NYC, Philadelphia, or parts of CT, NY, and PA) that would be my muse and my subject to tie up.
The only things I ask of my partner is that they are single or in a relations that would not cause drama with me getting involved (not looking to be a home-wreaker), practices good hygiene, and is willing to put in an equal level of commitment to travel if outside NJ. I do have a house but I am not expecting to host on day 1.
From here, these are not requirements, but I would love it if she was flexible, included sex with , interested in or curious about pain and sensory play, and was either a bottom or sub.
Feel free to message me if you have any questions for me, or am curious about this post, feel free to message. Hope to hear from you soon. PEACE!
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