Hello hello. I've started and deleted this post a few times because I always feel like I start rambling. I'm just going to try as be as concise as I can manage and hope for the best...wish me luck.

I am: - A professional in my field of 5ish years, but in graduate school to try a new field. - A parent. - At war with the deer, groundhogs, and raccoons that won't stay out of my garden. It feels personal at this point and I don't know what I've done to piss off the local wildlife, but I'm sorry. I just want tomatoes. - A writer for fun. I enjoy collaborative writing/written roleplay. - A little over 5'10, plus sized, white with brown hair and eyes. I'm okay with sharing SFW selfies soon into a good conversation if you'd like, because let's not pretend attraction isn't important. - Politically left leaning. - Known to communicate in memes, gifs, TikTok quotes, and emojis. - A very big fan of music, especially resonating lyrically. - A bit of a simp. I'll be obsessed with you and have no shame in it, if things go well. - Not looking for anything short term or unserious, but not in a position to invite someone fully into a life that I have not finished establishing yet.

Kink wise: - I am a pleasure domme above all else. My ego and sanity depend on giving my partner more pleasure than she knows what to do with, helping her figure out how to manage that, and then continuing to please her further. I'm more likely to demand orgasms than deny them, but don't worry, I'll always lend a hand. - Not particularly sadistic. - Into breast/nipple play, overstimulation, toys, multiple orgasms, forced orgasms, free use, and eventual aspects of TPE. - Consent and comfort minded. If you're not having fun with it then I don't want to do it. - Limits include anything illegal, age regressors, bathroom related, or permanently physically/life altering. - Open to kinks not listed as limits. I'd love to hear yours.

You are: - A functional adult. This doesn't mean you have it all together, because I surely don't. But I'm not looking for a dynamic in which I am reminding another adult that they are an adult. I would love to mutually benefit one another's lives and learn from each other, but I cannot fix things for you. I want you to want me to have control, I don't want you to need me to have it. - A cis woman. - Self aware, mostly. I think we are all constantly learning and growing but you should know yourself enough to be able to let me know you, too. - Open to voice notes, phone calls, and eventually sending photos/videos. Trust would obviously have to be established but if you know that's a hard limit for you then we are not compatible. - Interested in knowing and being known. You're not a kink dispenser and I'm looking for more than a dynamic. Teach me about your hobbies, show me your pet, tell me about the coworker you want me to beat up for you and why. - Open to completing tasks and letting me take a few decisions off your plate for you. - I have no specific preferences for body size, ethnicity, etc. I tend to prefer more feminine women but that's not a requirement by any means.

We are: - Super cute together. Everyone thinks so. - Start with some messaging to feel each other out, swap pictures, and stay up later than we should because the conversation is so good. - Have some phone calls, during which you make fun of the southern accent I swear I don't have. Because I don't. - Slowly start integrating aspects we both want from a dynamic and see how it feels for both of us. We love it. It's a great time. - It'll start small with tasks and praise, and then it'll gradually develop into more, and we wonder where the other has been all our lives because it's a really fun time. - Pretty soon we can't imagine getting through the day without input from the other and the dynamic grows from exploratory to more defined. - Perhaps we're local and can plan a meet, perhaps it's all long distance, but either way we end up being really glad we crossed paths.

I hope this all didn't come off as super serious, because I'm anything but most of the time. I just don't want to waste any of that time for either of us, so I figured I'd hit the highlights here. If you're interested, do feel free to reach out.