Hey hi :3 I got shy and I've been thinking about this for a while via lurking and finally got the courage so here goes.

I guess I want to get things out of the way that might be a deal breaker for someone. First off, I'm non-binary but afab. I use they/it/he pronouns since I'm flexible between those. Secondly, I marked this post as for anyone, but I'm a little hesitant about dealing with cis men. Due to some bad experiences in the past and just personal preference I lean more into women and other queer people. And last, pictures and videos are a hard no for me. It comes down to multiple reasons and if you are really that curious, I don't mind answering if you ask. A value honesty so I'll always be honest with you.

Anyways, on to what I'm looking for. It's rather hard to articulate what I want due to embarrassment I feel about it and because although I know some of what I want, I don't know all of what I want. In short, I want someone to own my sexuality. The dynamic I want hinges mostly on orgasm control, at least that I know of. I don't want much past that. Just a domme/dom to take that pesky decision of when I get pleasure or not out of my control. Well, within reason and consent of course. That's the majority of it I guess and it's kinda simple I believe.

In terms of like, what I like, I enjoy (obviously) orgasm control, edging, degradation and praise, and a bittt of pet play. I also have a preference in regards to that. I enjoy hypnosis too but I guess I mention that more as an after thought and far fantasy. Not gonna lie, the list of 'for sures' here is short but that's because I'm still discovering a lot of what I like.

Though I have limits too, those being sending pictures (as mentioned before), anything to do with toilet play, daddy/mommy type play and titles, as well as feet. Being enby but afab I also must mention that being referred to as a girl or something is sure fire fastest way to make me uncomfortable. There's definitely more here too and I tend to be open minded but I could just be forgetting something here or I'm introduced to something new I've never heard of and don't vibe with.

I guess the last thing I have to add is, while I aim for some kind of dynamic with someone, being friends in some capacity would be cool to me. Even with the consistent kink dynamic I want.

Anyway, hopefully I didn't scare anyone off because I'd love to hear from you :3 bye bye