Hey! My name is Holly and I’m a 30 year old AFAB gender fluid individual (usually between female & non binary) who goes by they/them/she/her. Ideally you’ll be older than me, however, I’m open to talking to dom(me)s that are a bit younger than me as well! I’ve recently got out of a sexless and kink less relationship (we started off Kinky and then it ended) and I’m really missing that aspect of my life (the kink, I mean). So, I’m looking for an online dom/me to fill that itch. I’m not looking for anything irl right now, just online, but who knows what can happen in the future. I’m looking for someone that can accommodate the UTC-2:30 / UTC-3:30 time zone. Ideally you would be able to message me multiple times throughout the day, however, I know life happens & don’t expect you to stall it for me.

So, a bit more about me! I’m fat, pansexual & hypersexual. While I am aiming to lose weight, if bigger people aren’t your thing, I totally understand and hope you have a great day. The kink terms I identify with are submissive, brat, sadomasochist, and Little. I’ve yet to find someone who can keep up with my sexual drive. For me, kink & sex are very aligned except for when it comes to my little side. My little side is completely non-sexual usually between the ages of 2-6. I am very shy and ashamed about my little side and I haven’t had great success with caregivers so far, so it would be an asset if you’re able to ‘force’ be into littlespace at times. I’m also a massive brat, so if you aren’t a tamer, we aren’t going to click! But if you are, you are free to attempt to tame me. It won’t work, but I’m excited to see you try ;D

Kink wise, I am into orgasm denial/control, overstim (but I’m very bad at doing it myself), breath play, begging, degradation & humiliation, and various other things. I have a spreadsheet of basically every single kink you could have and they’re all rated from Hard limit to enjoyment that you are welcome to look at.

In my vanilla life I enjoy playing D&D, survival video games, and reading dark romance. I’m not really huge into anime, however I do enjoy Digimon, Pokemon, and Demon Slayer. I’m also reading through the My Hero Academia manga. For my D&D life, I currently have 2 games a week but that is soon going to change into 4 (Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Fridays, Saturdays). I’m also currently working on a Digimon homebrew that I’m going to be DMing whenever it’s ready.

I struggle with a lot of mental issues including but not limited to: BPD, Self-Harm, Suicidal ideation, ADHD, and social anxiety. My anxiety is really bad around crowds & with the phone. If you can’t handle talking about these topics or don’t understand mental illness, we are not going to work out.

I’m hoping to find a dom/me who doesn’t mind being called Daddy, but it isn’t a guarantee deal breaker. I’m looking for someone to help me with my daily tasks, get me on a schedule, and of course, to have some fun with. I need guidance and discipline, I will test you! So, if you have a multitude of patience, that’s for sure an asset. I am hoping to gain someone to help me with the next step in my life through nurturing & maybe even a little tough love.

Losing control is something I crave and while I’m not into TPE, I am okay with being forced to give up certain aspects of my life including: bathroom use control for urine, outfit selection, undergarment selection, bedtime, wake up time, permission to touch myself sexually, and orgasm control and denial. I am also open to any suggestions or kinks you have in this manner.

Lastly, my limits include vomit, bathroom stuff, fire, anything that is illegal, & anything that leaves permanent damage.

If you’ve read this far, congratulations, you lived through my monologue of word vomit. I look forward to hearing from you! Here’s a hint, if you want to stand out and have a better chance of getting a reply, don’t just say “hi”, tell me about yourself! What are you looking for in a sub? Are you okay with being called Daddy? Can you make me into a crazed cumslut who begs to cum? Be original!