Disclosures: I have a nesting partner (7 years) who is asexual. I have one online dynamic with my Switch partner (2 months) who is overseas. Both are consenting of me pursuing and building relationships.

I am a neutral Switch. This ad is appealing to my s-side, so the best respondent to this post would be a Dom or another Switch. I show up authentically, I heavily prioritize communication, and I want us to build a meaningful and enriching experience for both of us.

I need to start practicing BDSM consistently in the real-word environment so that I can grow myself as both sub and domme. Nothing that I do is casual or half-assed and you must understand that. I don’t entertain people who play with this expression of sexuality as a joke. I want to go on dates, go on walks, hang out, and wrap BDSM into all of it.

About Me: 
5’4, DDF 
BBW, 48 inch waist, heavy chested 
I cannot host 
Arlington/Fort Worth is outside of my radius which honestly, that really sucks because there’s a lot of FW people here, but it is what it is 
We can discuss kinks and limits after preliminary screening
I refuse to be complicit in cheating

Seeking non-Hispanic connections only due to past experiences. Thanks for understanding.

Mandatory requirements: 
Dallas landed; suburbs include Plano/Frisco/Carrollton 
28 – 45 years of age 
Height: 5’10 – 6’5 
Weight: 190 – 300 lbs. I am body positive.

Preferred characteristics: 
ENM, Poly experienced/positive 
It would be great if you have exhibitionism as part of your kink list

Statement to Partnered People: If you respond to my ad, it is imperative that you are doing it from a place of understanding about what ENM means to you. I will not be used as a little treat for your bi-curious cuckquean questioning wife. I will not be a third in your relationship hierarchy who you will use as a kink dispenser and throw away when your bucket-list items are checked off. Both of you will treat me with respect for my goals and personhood. I will be questioning you about expectations of privacy and your intentions for my involvement in your lives. I have already been unicorn hunted on this app and I will not be hurt like that again.

Reddit chat rules: Low effort, lazy messages will be ignored. Aggressive introducers will be blocked. Clarification messages must also include the keyword, as I need to ensure you actually read this. Don’t copy and paste your templates to me that you use for everyone else – tailor it. Be a gentleman.

Singles keyword: Quartz 
Partnered keyword: Rhodochrosite