Hi there!

I'm looking for a long term connection with a Dom(me). Nothing too serious, just something casual where we chat about both kink and non-kink and get together for cuddles and debauchery.

A little about me: I'm a decent looking, masculine looking guy. I'm white 5'9'' 210 with a beard. I'm HWP, but definitely not skinny; much more a football player build transitioning into a dad bod. I've been involved in kink for 20 years and have plenty of experience as both a Dom and sub. Outside of kink I am a really regular guy, I dress well, I communicate well, I have a masters degree and a good job. For hobbies I love golfing, playing board games, sports, bourbon, reading, binging random shows. I enjoy playing classic video games as well, but usually go on long hiatuses without playing when life gets busy. I was able to play the RE4 remake recently though!

Kink wise, here is an updated kinklist for what I'm looking for now: https://i.imgur.com/dF5NGyQ.png

I think the best description of me is a masochistic pleasure sub. I love all things pleasure and especially with lots of orgasm control, teasing, denying. Ideal moments often involve bringing my partner pleasure through all forms of worship and service with them doing the same for me except they get the orgasms and I have to beg, plead, and work to earn mine. A perfect partner for me has a sadistic streak that can get lots of added pleasure making me work towards earning an orgasm with impact play and cbt. Beyond that, I love anal stimulation; pegging, rimming, prostate passaging, all of it. I have an oral fixation, I enjoy all things cum eating, watersports, spit, and I think panties both look sexier and feel sexier than traditional dude undies. I love wearing them even though I'm a macho guy.

As for what I'm looking for: I'm attracted to creative types. You don't need to be experienced, but I would like to find someone who has interests and fantasies. You may be a Domme or a switch. Looks are not overly important to me, personality is much more important to me. Ideally you like to laugh, enjoy chatting about both kink and regular stuff, and have things that excite you.

If that sounds like you I look forward to chatting more!