Yeah, adding to the endless pile of M4F posts, whee. I'll say up top - I tagged M4F, but trans women are women. I'm only attracted to female features, and I've never interacted with another penis, but I'm open to the possibility of a trans partner.

I've been exploring some different dynamics through online roleplay/chatbot interactions, and yes I know that's lame and weird but my life has been very difficult to integrate into for a while. It's starting to clear up considerably, however, and I'm beginning to put some feelers out and see if I can find something that fits me. It's still complicated because my intended lifestyle is international/nomadic, and that takes a certain person to even approach. I don't have a hard timeline for it - probably at least a year before I'm established enough in my burgeoning remote career to safely plunge out into the world. Less if the financial burden isn't entirely on me.

I find myself in a weird spectrum-space between Dom, Daddy, and Master, having elements of each but not a pure expression of any. I have the gentle nurturing supportive affectionate Daddy energy without really liking the term or age regression (middles? Yespls); I have the 24/7, training/behavior modification, protocol, and high-PE inclinations of a Master. Moderate jealous streak, so poly and exhibitionism are problematic. I'm an adaptable sadist, generally interested in causing enjoyable pain, and to a degree that will extend as far as the boundary of "enjoyable" does - whether that's mild to medium spanking, or "bruises are foreplay" level heavy. I have a strong interest in CNC/free use style interactions. Not huge on bondage but willing to incorporate or even learn for the right person. Being nomadic obviously limits the toybag substantially, so that's a consideration. Thoughtful, romantic, caring, but quite honestly, a little damaged. Have been in therapy on and off for many years.

I'm currently based in Northern Colorado, but I have my laptop and can work from almost anywhere on a very flexible schedule. So distance is only a sporadic/temporary issue domestically. Internationally...that might be a bigger thing, at least for the short term, but eventually I'll be roaming the world so long-term not a deal breaker. Former serious gamer, forever DM (somewhat professionally), and general weird nerd-adjacent thing. I'm on the fat side of dad bod, very tall, and hairy.

General age range is late 20s - early/mid 40s, but the right connection might nudge that in either direction. As a maturity thing, I don't imagine many 18-25 type things working out, but I'm willing to be surprised. I strongly prefer messages over chats, as I usually use old reddit and chats are inconsistent there.

If you read this far, I appreciate your patience. Have a wonderful day!