Hi there,

I’ve done this before and it’s my preference is to be direct. I’m looking for a partner for all aspects of my life.

I am:

26, 6 ft, dirty blonde (fair haired 🤷‍♀️), fit , ambitious in career and life, affable weirdo, funny, silver tongued, emotionally intelligent, confident. I know myself and have a knack for understanding other people. I’m familiar and confident managing a healthy dynamic. I’m family oriented and very social, and even though I take life seriously I’m comfortable being silly. I read a lot, I’m lucky to have a big social circle, I’ve travelled all around the world on my own but never picked up a language. Proud father to three loaves of sourdough and counting :)

You will be:

A girl in her early or mid 20s with ambition, seeking to build a rich and complex life with a talented and experienced Dom as her partner. You’re adventurous and love trying new things (in and out of the bedroom), you understand the need for good communication, you’re fit and healthy. You have some kind of passion or hobby. You love to chat late into the night. You’re not ashamed of your submissive side but you’re not easily won over - rather you’ll wait for the right partner to kneel for. When you do, it will go deeper than sex.

Kink wise, I like power dynamics and control. I want to understand you and take advantage of my understanding to exploit you for your own sexual delight. A good girl on my arm, to go to the pub with our friends or meet my parents. Behind closed door, an eager slut and a docile submissive. Please expect to find yourself dripping, often. My kinks revolve around rules and protocol, training, experimentation. I am both a sadist and a pleasure Dom - so I want to do perverted torturous things to have you cum for me over and over.

I prefer the caring but demanding role of a Daddy. I enjoy pain play, free use, tasteful humiliation, eye contact acts of depravity. I love things like wardrobe control and find myself very attractive to femininity (physically, mostly), but not to the point I would let that be a box to restrict either of our personalities. I prefer to be in charge of things, in and out of the bedroom, but out of the bedroom this would be quite soft and caring.

I’ve been in the game six years. That means full blown D/s dynamics with complex rules and etiquettes, play partners, mutual-obsessions, boredom, romance, mind-blowing sex, boring sex, pleasures discovered and diminishing. Kink is not the main thing in my life. That would be family & friends, and then passion and art, then the outdoors, spiritually, and then maybe kink. Rather, it is an intoxication I’d prefer not to live without. I’ve had the pleasure of existing inside of a heathy D/s dynamic, so I know what everyone else is missing out on. But I’m looking for something real, with longevity and most of all GROWTH, so I am willing to make sacrifices for the right person. I am not going to compromise on my values because I like mixing power with sex, and neither should you.

I’m looking for something IRL, in London.

I love kink. I’d love its energy to infuse all the little nooks and crannies of our relationship. But I’m looking for something real and intimate so please expect that type of person. To me, putting a post up here isn’t really any differently to swiping in Hinge. Might as well throw it up and see where it lands me. Hopefully, I hear from you.