Disclaimers: While relatively close by is ideal, I'm open to starting online, with the caveat that any relationship that forms has a good-faith, reasonable expectation of transitioning to in-person with irl visits interspersed throughout. Details can be hashed out person to person about a discussion of needs, but let's save us both time if this is not what you're looking for.
I've been out since I was 18, but have only recently been able to continue hormones out of safety concerns. I guess you could say I'm "pre-transition" in that department. I have facial features that I believe will feminize nicely in time and a nice body for having no boobs yet, but it's something to keep in mind.
With that out of the way, let's begin. Hello, I'm Jen. I'm a 28 year old trans woman, a current line cook, and a prospective lab technician. My aesthetic ranges from T-shirts and sweats lounging at home to anywhere between a pastel and punk rock princess out on the town. I'm pan, though have a lean towards femme people. I see myself mostly being monogamous but think I'd be fine with a polyamorous partner as long as my needs are met. Child-free now and probably forever.
I'm a nerd at heart with a special interest in biology in general, and speculative and evolutionary biology in particular. In addition, I'm learning German, largely for the funsies. I'm a PC and Switch gamer. Monster Hunter is hands down my favorite franchise ever. I enjoy writing quite a bit too, but mostly within the sphere of character-based roleplay or world building for text-based TTRPGs and the like. I can talk about all these and more, A LOT, but I can listen just as well about your hobbies so it balances out.~
I'm a romantic at heart and romance and kink really can't be seperated for me. I can't offer my neck to someone without a baseline level of trust, intimacy, or mutual understanding. I'm willing to discuss kink early on as a sort of compatability filter in general terms, but I'm not going to initially be interested in sex or play. For now, let's overgeneralize my proclivities as a rope bunny and service sub curious about exploring limited power exchange. Expect playful mischief and a pinch of snark, but nowhere near a category 5 brat-icane.
What I think I bring to the table: A witty and intellectual conversation partner. Cuddly and sweet. A focus on building and maintaining a strong foundation of trust and intimacy. Introspective and always trying to self-improve, if I fall down seven times, I get up eight. A comforting shoulder when life stings and an enthusiastic cheerleader for your ambitions and dreams. A safe space to be vulnerable. Not afraid to air out my baggage early on to take or leave as you will, saves us both time. Reportedly very nice legs and a gropeable butt.
What I hope for: Someone 25-40, give or take a few years, who values honesty and integrity. A good sense of humor is endearing, especially the dry witty kind. Gentle and nurturing. A love language that thrives with and on regular conversation, deep thoughts, and shared activities over grander displays. Card-carrying and proud geek!
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