Hi, I'm a 25 year old guy and I'm looking for a sub for online play. Most importantly I'm looking for someone with a submissive side.

I'd love to have a sub/pet to care for while also controlling and mildly tormenting them. Someone who likes a mix of soft and hard domination!

Note: I put M4F in the title but I'm open to messages from anyone who is not a cis man (that's just not what I'm interested in right now). In the past when I've posted M4A I get a lot of messages from cis men even if I specify that that's not what I'm looking for.

Personally I enjoy setting rules and giving tasks. We can go at whatever pace you like but I'm looking for someone who enjoys being controlled so the dynamic will be centered around that.

If you're looking for someone who can be strict (when needed) and delightfully mean while ensuring you feel safe and respected I'm your guy. I try to find a good balance between strict dom and caring owner.

I have a soft spot for cute and needy subs.

I'm looking for something mostly sexual but we should be able to chat and talk to eachother like humans as well.

Outside of kink I'm a student, I like books, movies, the outdoors. I'm terrible at describing myself but I'm an open book, just ask.

Pictures/nudes are an important part of online bdsm for me (I'm usually not comfortable showing my face, at least at first, so I don't expect you to do so). It's hard for me to wrap my head around the dynamic if I'm not able to see you or the results of what I tell you to do. However, we can go at whatever pace you're comfortable with and I certainly don't expect anything until you feel safe. Im certainly not just looking for a porn dispenser but if you don't enjoy the idea of being told to send nudes (eventually) this probably isn't for you.

I have a lot of "interests" but here's a few that are relevant to what I'm looking for in an online dynamic:

-orgasm control/denial

-Edging

-pain play

-pet play

-Control

-Rules

-Bondage

-Spanking 

-masturbation/edging instructions

-light humiliation (i.e. nothing too mean)

-degradation and praise

-exhibitionism 

-maybe light water sports stuff

-maybe light public stuff

If you're still reading and are interested send me a message, and include your favorite color