A bit about myself: I have years of experience as a dom, in a multitude of different and unique dynamics including online and IRL. I am very career oriented and I work in healthcare, this comes with long and constantly changing hours. For the right person I am happy to make the time for them. I’m looking for something online with potential to move to IRL. I do plan to move every few years due to my career. I consider myself just as down to earth and compassionate as I am strict and stern. I enjoy having stimulating conversations with my sub and it’s imperative to me that we have trust and a connection built before anything else. I am 6’ with an average build with strong broad shoulders. I workout regularly. I am just a larger man stature wise, not overweight or unhealthy and I am bearded with tattoos.

My satisfaction from a D/s dynamic comes from the submission itself, whatever form that takes, I want it to stem from a place of trust and comfortability.

What I’m looking for: A sub, brat, slave or whatever you’d like to call yourself, to get to know on a personal level first and allow the kink to happen naturally. I do not care how much experience you do or do not have, I love teaching and guiding as much as I enjoy a well trained sub. The most important thing I am looking for is someone who is eager to please and serve. Someone who is ideally open to tasks, routines and rules. I am open to TPE but it is not necessary. I understand there are lives outside of kink and the rules and tasks would reflect what’s appropriate for the demand you have in your personal life. So whether they stay inside the bedroom or extend outside will be up to you and what you’re comfortable with. I appreciate a submissive who shows initiative in her desire to be in the dynamic by providing ideas or rules she thinks she would like to explore. I don’t believe this threatens dominance I think this shows a desire to submit and serve. I can be as sweet, warm and caring or sadistic and cruel as you’d like. I have no preference in education or whatever you do for a job as long as you are easy and fun to talk to. I’m looking for a dynamic or woman to talk to or have a connection with that can provide me some relaxation in an otherwise busy and stressful routine.

Please be forthright with what you’re looking for, even if that’s just a conversation I still encourage you to message me as I love meeting and talking to people in this community. If you are open or looking for a dynamic I’d love to hear what you expect out of your dom.

I am very open with my kinks and willing to try almost anything once. I’d consider my kinks fairly “standard”, bondage, orgasm control, impact play, worshiping to name a few. Limits include anything illegal, water sports, permanent bodily harm and blackmail. With that being said I am more than happy to stay within the limits you are comfortable with and endulging your kinks. My philosophy with regards to a D/s dynamic is that the sub is the one in charge as they set the limits in which the dom may play in. I do obviously enjoy exploring and pushing limits when they’ve been discussed and agreed upon prior.

Please be aware that in a dynamic I do expect you to share pics of yourself or tasks and rules being completed, please let me know if this is something you are not comfortable with.

Let’s be honest here, I am not looking to scam or blackmail you. I don’t need your money, I have my own and I’m just looking to continue my exploration of kink.

I do not have an expectation that if you reach out, we we’ll automatically or be forced to form a dynamic so If any of what I have said interests you or you’d like to have a friendly conversation and meet someone new with some shared interests please don’t hesitate to reach out! I look forward to hearing from you!