Hello there! I’m an educated professional who has way too little time for dating. I have a super demanding role which eats into my free time quite substantially. However, what I can offer is a fun and sexually charged friendship, with no perspective of ever meeting and most importantly a functional BDSM dynamic. I am very experienced with light domination all the way to extreme TPE line, with people who are engaged and need their discretion. I don’t mind if your partner knows or not — your body/life, your choice. Why do I prefer taken subs? Because I can offer the missing peace in your relationship, but not the whole thing due to my career. 

I explore submission in depth from a mental perspective and cater to needs that may not be fulfilled  by your perfectly otherwise functioning relationship. I’m not the typical "dom" into football and who thinks handcuffs and spankings are kinky. I think that is important for what I am proposing here. This will be built on proper discussions over time and a gradual descent into TPE or as close to it as reality allows as well as a deep change in your lifestyle. 

Me:  Highly motivated, knowledgeable and experienced in kink , interests in reading, history, psychology, the outdoors and traveling to weird places. Physically, 6’3’’, brown eyes and hair and gym goer. 

Things I’m into but not just: Rules, restrictions, micromanagement, orgasm control/denial, bondage. Generally, as much as possible I would want a cheeky dynamic where I can drop in and tell you that you may or may not be restricted from using furniture for the next hours, or having to ask permission to go out etc. If you are into having aspects of your relationship controlled, I am very much up for that. 

You:  Interesting, passionate, submissive, craves to serve, likes to chat outside of kink and build a dynamic over time, based on our needs and interests. Can engage in chats about whatever may be of interest that day. Is willing to serve and dedicate time, effort and sometimes suffering to an online Dom who is slowly taking over her life and fills it with thrill. To show you paid attention use the word “mesmerised” in your first message. Looks and age are not important (older ladies very welcome!) but you must be able to verify and communicate via voice or even video calls as things develop. 

Us two:  I much prefer communicating outside of Reddit once trust is established and I emphasise that I under stand limitations around someone who is engaged in a relationship — I have my own work-related limitations so it will work out.  This was a long one… if you have gone through it all, send me a message and introduce yourself. I most likely will ignore low effort ones. You must be able to carry a conversation and DO NOT treat me like a kink dispenser. I’m only interested in building something long term :)