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I'm a 21 year old dominant woman insterested in forming an intense, passionate and intimate bond and dynamic with a man worthy of being by my side.
I'm a traditionally feminine and classically beautiful woman who enjoys challenging herself in her life. Driven, divine, seemingly cold with a hidden fire inside. Both deliciously soft and incredibly cruel. With an angelic, breathy voice and painfully precise whipping skills as my main weapons. I have dark hair, light skin and bright eyes. I'm on the taller side and keep myself in shape. I'm hot and pretty, I know and own it. And you bet I'm going to use it on my man to drive him insane. My parents come from vastly different cultures, I grew up speaking three languages thanks to them. They also always found and still find new ways of showing me what love is, so I'm forever grateful for such a great example of it.
In my free time, I like learning new and improving existing skills, creating things with my hands, writing, reading, visiting art galeries, theaters and operas.
I've never done anything like this before but there's this feeling of longing that I don't want to suppress anymore. I strongly believe that there is a soulmate waiting for me somewhere, so I hope my words speak to that one person if he's reading them.
What I want is quite specific, I'd be willing to discuss it further personally, but for starters, I'm after a very special kind of man. Someone who is powerful and strong, assertive, if not almost rude at times. But can't help melting at the feet of his woman who happens to be me, behind closed doors. And this is very important to me, no one should know about what happens between us when we're alone. Something about keeping it a secret appeals to me immensely.
I expect to form a lifelong partnership with the man of my choice, and that means we have to be equally desirable and powerful, so if you never had to serve before, it will only make matters more interesting and fun for us both.
In simple terms, I would describe his role as an unstoppable force that lives to bring me pleasure. It may sound confusing or even counterintuitive, but it's the only way to get me and make it work, I know what I want. Owning an absolutely dominant pleasure machine and having him serve me is the best thing I can imagine. He has to be a complex person with nuanced sexuality to be able to match me. Having a quick mind, kind heart and good sense of humor. Being both supportive and sweet or strict when needed. Men who are older, taller, and more experienced than I am are a big turn on. Lookswise, I don't have a particular type and feel attracted to aspects of masculinity most women like. It's really more about his presence and character. What matters most is him hearing and understanding me in ways no one does, not even me perhaps. And the ability to give me exactly what I want and need, when I want and need that. Especially the things I can't ask for.
Sexually, my main goal is seeing how far I can push him and how long it would take me to consume him fully. One crucial thing being that no matter what we do and how lost we are in each other, I want to feel powerful as a woman. That's key. Once again, I'm not looking for a relationship based solely on kink and sex, however I am dedicating a large portion of this post to it because I know exactly what I want and what works for me. I promise safety, respect of another person's privacy and space, as well as catering to his own limits and boundaries and expect the same in return. Pressuring me into giving anything I'm not comfortable with will result in me ending things. I'm not interested in cucks, MD/lb dynamics, sissies, anyone with prior addictions. Also not looking to switch in any way.
I'm not limiting my search to any location as things will start online anyway. But I do want to be able to travel and be together should it come to that. That's the endgoal.
And this is the end for now. Thank you for staying and reaching it. Hopefully it resonated with you. If not, I wish you best of luck with your search.
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