I feel like society today gives us all of these things, rules, choices, freedoms... and says they'll make us happy. But everyone is fucking miserable. We have more choices than ever when it comes to entertainment, things to do, things to buy, dating, so much freedom, so much instant gratification.... and everyone. fucking. hates. it.
People have so much in front of them to distract. So many little things to avoid boredom and pain. But pleasure can't truly exist without pain. Freedom cannot exist without knowing captivity. I've always seen this and been drawn to BDSM because of this. Maybe we're just a different kind of person, a special kind of person who can really see this fully. I need a relationship where I can really show someone this. To tear someone down, have them give up total control, make them experience true pain and build them into a new person... that's true love, trust, and beauty to me. Knowing that hate, love, pain, pleasure... they are all the same. Everything else, everyone else... just seems so shallow in comparison to us who know.
Experienced and my kink list is exhaustive. We can talk more about that in detail later. Searching for someone who knows that they want to give up control.
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