Hello there,

I'm glad to welcome you to my ad, and perhaps to the start of a great time together. I'll be as clear as possible to avoid wasting anyone's time, including mine, so please read carefully and if you reach the end thinking 'this sounds like the man I'm looking for, let's chat!

Who am I:

First things first, I'm Harold. I'm also 42 years of age and I live in the Flemish speaking part of Belgium. In my day to day life I have a full time job I really like - I hope I can keep it until I stop working. I'm also into arts, experiencing them where possible. I did publish a novel, a few stories and that is an ongoing undertaking. Next to that I like hanging out with friends, talking to my cat, I go jogging and weightlift on a regular basis. To be honest, that's something I've been doing for a few months, so I'm not yet where I want to be. Apart from that, I'm just under 1m80, broad shouldered, shaven head, bearded and with a few tattoos. As far as kink goes, I'm very much the gentle but strict mentor type with a love for spanking. And tasks, and structure, and plain simple teasing.

Who are you:

That's the big question! I'm hoping to meet you! A hard limit is that you should be female, single and have an honest desire to be in a D/s dynamic. What follows beneath is what I find important. - I'd like you to be between 25 and 45. - The closer you are to Belgium, the better! - I'm not into extreme body types (both super skinny and obese) - Your experience level really doesn't matter because if you're not I'll teach you how to be my girl and if you are, you still need to be taught to be specifically 'my' girl. - you can hold a conversation within and outside kink.

What I'm looking for:

You might have guessed, I'm looking for a relationship that has a D/s dynamic at the center: speaking from experience, I enjoy relations with clearly defined roles. I do, however, not want to force or mold you into something you're not interested in. As a Dom, most of all I want my girl to feel good and flourish. Under my guidance, obviously, but what that exactly entails is something we'll find out together. The end goal is to be one of those annoyingly happy couples from whom everyone thinks 'how do they do it?'

So, there's a smart, well-read, kinky and pretty accomplished man waiting, who wants to build a mutually beneficial and safe relation and dynamic with you.

What are you waiting for?