I'm a pretty relaxed, mature, working professional in the IT industry. I'm also a hard worker, driven, and I take pretty good care of myself. And I crave the mental relief submission and BDSM provides.

I'm looking for a Domme to develop a mutually beneficial relationship with. Whether it’s strictly a lifestyle thing, or through some other sort of arrangement, I’m open to discussion. 

I like the intimacy and trust that can be developed getting to know each other over time. I'm definitely not looking for just a single meet up. I want to give you the chance to learn what makes me tick, and I want to learn what pleases you.    

Some of my interests include tease/denial, chastity, edging, bondage, discipline, orgasm control, strapon play.  TPE and FLR are of interest to me as well, and if it’s also yours, happy to explore and discuss limits. 

Some physical details- I'm 5'9", 175, slim/muscular build, short brown hair, brown eyes. I exercise regularly, don’t smoke, and drink socially.

I’m flexible on whether this is strictly kink, or whether we incorporate vanilla activities as well. I’m new to NYC and still learning my way around. Would love to have a companion who can help me settle into town, including taking my Mistress out to dinner, or to a fun activity, or even just to get a drink from time to time. My main interest though is developing a long term relationship that satisfies us both, whatever that means.

I’ve also recently had the opportunity to serve a Mistress at a play party. This was a new experience for me, and I really enjoyed it.  So I’m open to discussing incorporating these types of activities as well if it’s an interest of yours. Or we can just keep it strictly private.

Other than work, I have no other responsibilities in NYC.  But I do have some out of state. If you’re looking for more of a serious LT D/s relationship, I can share more detail to make sure our interests are aligned.   

I live in Brooklyn (Cobble Hill). Please message me if you think I might be a good sub for you, would like to discuss further, or if you just have some questions. Happy to exchange pics as well.