I am seeking a life partner for an intimate yet platonic relationship where sexual activity between us is off the table. This might seem unusual, as sex and intimacy often appear intertwined, but they don’t have to be. I want you to “own” me as your pet, control my orgasms, help me develop goals, and use discipline and rewards to keep me focused on my goals and maintaining your home.

If you consider yourself a sub, enjoying partners that take control, this might not sound immediately appealing. However, having a pet to control and train, and a servant at your beck and call, could be a lot of fun, couldn’t it? Let the idea swirl around a bit.

I want you to have other sexual partners, potentially partners you allow to dominate you, whom I hope to get to know and befriend. One of my goals is to foster a sense of community and bring people together.

I want you to treat me like a eunuch, punishing me when my desires become evident, teasing me, and driving me wild with lust that I must work to suppress. I want to help you select outfits for your dates, tend to my chores while you’re out, and listen to any stories you might have when you return.

I want you to use my blue balls as motivation, only allowing me release when I have met my goals and been a good boy. I want you and other friends to tease and play with me, building pressure and desire to achieve whatever I need to reach the finish line.

I love road trips, hiking, camping, visiting museums and roadside attractions, trying new things, and learning how things work.

I’m Bob, your potential accomplice, ready to embark on a journey of discovery, growth, and playful exploration with you. I am a natural leader and not a “whimpy” sub, but I want to cede my power to you. Make me yours, today!

What I am looking for has been much harder to find than you might imagine. If this is not your cup of tea, I would love your help spreading the word. Many people may not realize this sort of dynamic is an option and desired.

We don’t talk about these subjects openly, which means we often don’t know our friends as well as we think. That innocent and sweet subby friend that would NEVER find this appealing – might actually find it intriguing.

It is difficult to know without asking. Bring it up as something funny you came across and laugh about me. Humiliation is one of my kinks. ;)