Greetings! I am a nonbinary switch in northeastern Illinois, north of Chicago (close enough to the border to include any of you who are in southeast Wisconsin). I have had an absolutely lllllllovely time exploring my kinky side with some of my long distance friends, but so far I've have fairly bad luck finding kinky people nearby. I am here to hopefully change that! So if you are nearby and think we'll get along, please feel free to send me a message ^^

What I'm looking for:

• All genders are welcome, though I do lean more towards feminine/androgynous presenting people.
• Someone nearby, you don't have to worry about hosting since I have my own apartment and would be happy to invite you over, but you're obviously going to have to be able to reach me. I obviously wont be giving away my location here but for now I'll say that if you can reasonably reach the Six Flags theme park then you have a good chance of being able to reach me as well.
• Near in age, I'd say that 19-25 people are very welcome. 18-28 people are welcome to message me still if they'd like, but there's less of a chance it'll work out. People older than 29, I appreciate that you took the time to read through this but it's probably best if you look elsewhere... good luck with your search though!
• Any role is welcome, as a switch I am very flexible.
• Any amount of experience is welcome, I'd say I'm more on the inexperienced side of things myself so if you are too then I'd be happy for us to learn together! If you are more experienced then I'm eager to learn what you have to teach ^^
• Whether you want to be romantic partners, friends with benefits, or even just regular friends and are just very lost for some reason, I'm open to it all! Every relationship on that sliding scale is valuable to me and if I like you then my life will be improved by you no matter what relationship you wish for us to have. (Well excluding a strictly hookup based relationship I suppose, I'd like to get along with more than just bdsm. While I am here to find people I can do kinky stuff with, good relationships are about more than that right?)

About me:

• I am a 22 year old Nonbinary, as I said in the title. I use they/them, I suppose she/her is fine too, but please no he/him since I've already tried that plenty and it's just not for me. I'm 6'2 and real skinny if that's something that matters to you. Fairly vague in the gender and presentation department, I'm kind of doing my own thing I guess.
• Most of my experience has been on the dom side of things since the people I have been able to explore with so far happened to be subs. Though I do know I like to sub as well and during the little bit of that I have been able to do I found out very quickly that I'm quite bratty so there's that XD. I do already know that I like bondage, teasing, power dynamics and hypnosis. Beyond that there's plenty I'd like to try, and I'm sure there's more to discover out there too. Up front I should let you know that I do want to get to know you a bit first since trust is important to me and it's a necessary step in order for me to feel comfortable around you. Though in the meantime I absolutely do consent to all the teasing you'd like right off the bat since that is a lot of fun for me~
• Outside of the kinky stuff I love all the types of games. Video games, board games, ttrpg games, I've even taken the time to program some games for the fun of it! I love music, feel free to ask me for some if you want because I have soooo much. I can kind of juggle but I'm just ok at it, silver is my favorite color. I don't write but for some reason deconstructing stories and the writing that went into them became one of my favorite topics so I don't know whats going on there... aaaaand I plan to be here when the sun blows up ¯\_(ツ)_/¯