A no-nonsense tl;dr

I'm looking for a good girl who likes being tied up, teased, and snuggled with. I'm open to a play partner, a serious relationship, or just exploring. Ideally you're local to DFW or within driving distance, but I could be open to moving if we are an amazing long-term match. I'm looking for someone without kids, and for a serious relationship no kids in the future either.

Adding a little spice

I want to take care of my good girl so that she's so excited to take care of me. How does she take care of me? By being my pretty toy to play with and control. I like to see my toy bound with ropes, belts, or tape. Then I like to accessorize with things like gags, clamps, blindfolds, or whatever else makes my girl so helpless for me. Now it's time to give her a reason to squirm for me. I like teasing, sensation play, and maybe some light pain. I'm not into welts and bruises. I just want to give my girl the chance to show me how good she is for me, what she can endure for me, and how she loves to be controlled by me.

I'm not really interested in or motivated by penetrative sex. Playing and the dynamic are what really excite me and I'd rather use toys. So if sex is more important to you than playing, we probably aren't a great match.

Now a bit about me

6'0", 160lbs, fit, handsome/cute, bearded, deep voice, childfree, never married

I'm a software developer, and as you might expect, I'm a bit of a nerd and definitely an introvert. I also live that frugal life and am a bit of a minimalist (I don't like owning a bunch of stuff). I once sold almost everything I owned and I've never felt so free. Staying fit is important to me so I lift weights and even do cardio which is super boring. I love to take walks in nature and listen to podcasts when its not so hot outside. But mostly I'm happy being a homebody watching TV/movies, playing games, and snuggling with my good girl.

Is this you?

under 40ish, cis female, single, fit (bonus for flexible), childfree

You are a capable adult who can manage her own life. You take care of yourself, both mentally and physically, and you enjoy looking good for your partner. You can be happy even if you're not constantly on the move, and you are looking for a partner you can trust and rely on. But you also long to be freed of all those boring responsibilities and instead relax by giving yourself to someone you find worthy. Hopefully that's me.

A few dealbreakers

I've resisted putting negatives in my post, but I figure I can save some time by mentioning this stuff up front: no smoking/drugs, no Trump, no anti-science (anti-vax, flat earthers, etc), no hardcore religion, and the big one... no kids now or in the future.

So what's next?

Message me and lets chat!