34 year old Dominant M is looking for his first slave. I've had & have submissives (ENM) but I'm ready to make the jump into M/s. I have 15 years experience in the BDSM lifestyle, ranging everywhere from sadism, ddlg, pet, cnc, deg/hum, and more.
What would I expect in a slave? Obedience first and foremost. After all, you would be my property. I know that takes trust and trust takes time. My ideal slave understands that while I have the ability to do whatever I want with her, it's my responsibility to ensure that she is never truly harmed in body mind or soul. I will push you past your comfort zone, yes, but I will never push you into true danger. You would definitely be given rules and rituals, as well as a fair bit of control. I can be hard, but never unreasonable. Communication is incredibly important to me. If you have concerns, talk to me, I will hear you, I will consider your concerns, but final choice will come from Master.
What type of rules might I give? This is in no way an exact or exhaustive list of rules or power exchanges as these things are personal to the relationship.
Clothing/underwear to be decided by me Makeup/hair standards Bladder control Photo requirements (such as poses or inspections) Morning/night message requirements (I.E. being the first/last person you message in a day) Branding/labeling (writing a specific phrase or my name on specific locations on your body) Masturbatory requirements (sets of edges or orgasms, Or doing it a certain way)
My greatest hope is that any M/s dynamic I enter into is fulfilling for us both on deep personal levels. The punishments might be harsh, but the rewards are always wonderful.
I am willing to consider any biological woman of any age, but preference is 21-39.
If you have read this, and think this might be for you, let's talk about it. I will never expect your submission immediately. I hope to hear from you soon.
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