Oh boy, here goes nothing!

I have been on a quest to find my person. Perhaps they are right around the corner. Maybe they don’t exist. Or maybe, it’s you, reader!

About me: I am a high performing careerist with a very busy and bountiful life. I am very dominating and independent, (one could even say challenging) in vanilla life. I’d like to maintain that part of my life while developing an intense and all consuming D/s dynamic with my partner.

I am a natural, soft beauty. Brown hair, blue eyes, fair skin. Tattoos. I am in the gym every day and am strong. My figure is slim thick, curvy, Greek goddess adjacent - I have muscle and curve and softness everywhere.

I tend to dress more feminine, ‘classic corporate’, colorfully and try to stay fashionable. I am very girly and think clothing and makeup and all of the cute stuff is so much fun.

My ideal Saturday starts early, with coffee and the gym. Then I’ll walk the historic district nearby with my dogs. Tinker around the house, read, or pick up a project. Maybe a nap before getting ready for dinner. I like to dress up, look pretty, have a nice dinner and then hit up a dive bar before ending the night. I do all of this alone or with friends, but I’d like to find someone special to share my traditions with.

About you: 27-35. You are naturally dominant, and find that aura and strength to be your preferred role. You are a great communicator and, although structured and methodical (all great doms are), you’re looking for your sub to be your sweet, soft spot. You’re not offended by the idea of a long lasting love, and in fact cannot imagine BDSM dynamic without it.

You are emotionally intelligent and can read people well. You are not someone who will bend to my begging or pleasing or manipulation (I’m a bit of sweet talker). You will push me, challenge me, and get a high out of molding me to be your perfect submissive.

Sorry fellas - attraction matters quite a big deal to me. I take care of myself (and have the occasional sweet treat) and I expect you to as well.

You are tall and handsome. You have a bigger, maybe rugby player type stature. (I am strong. I want to be very easily overpowered by you). You value hygiene and grooming. Cherry on top if you have a beard.

You have some sort of experience within D/s, BDSM, etc and are interested in making this happen in real life. Real life!!

About us: I’d like us to evolve into a TPE relationship. My kinks, although not comprehensive, include - CNC, breeding, impact play, orgasm control, marks, watersports, group play, exhibitionism, pain, free use. There is so much more there but it’s just not coming to mind right now.

We challenge each other. We’re nasty and sex fueled and fucking like bunnies. We push each others limits and explore and have fun. We adventure and travel and laugh and giggle. We’re each others cheerleaders, our safe spaces, lovers. We become each others, holistically.

We are in person and evolve into a life together. That will take so much time and effort and communication. I will not jump into just anything and am not looking for a quick fling - I want something steady, growing, passionate, evolving. I am comfortable living my life alone. But I’m hoping that my person that also wants this dynamic will someday add value to my life that I can’t go without.

Anyways, thanks for reading. I will be very picky so please be convicting in your opening message. Good luck with your search and please send luck for mine :)