About me

31 years old black curvy female, 5"4, multiple piercings and tattoos. No kids but do want kids in future.

Vanilla me loves arcade games, board games, gaming (Tekken, Soul Calibur, Mortal Kombat), anime (all time favs - FMA:B, Gintama, Cowboy Bebop), manga, reading fiction (nordic crime, romance, sci fi & fantasy), cinema (looking forward to D & W 😆), museum, galleries, gigs/concerts (listen to a wide range of music, from heavy metal to blues). Currently rewatching "Courage the Cowardly Dog" 😁.

I don't expect you to have the same vanilla interests as me but having mutual interests would be great.

What I'm looking for

I'm looking for someone monogamous (single, not married, not enm/poly) between the ages of 30-40, who lives in London and wants an IRL (NOT ONLINE) relationship. Someone healthy, keeps fit, takes care of their mental and physical.

I hope for D/s elements both in & out the bedroom. Someone who'll enjoy teaching me the ropes (pun intended) and push me past my limits (im too comfortable there 😁).

Deal breakers: smoking, e-cigs, online only, long distance, drugs, enm/poly.

Kinks and limits

My kinks are generally control based: bondage, restraints, outfit control, teasing, forced orgasms, toys, punishments, gags and much more.

I do rope self ties, occasionally tying people at jams but being tied is where my heart's at.

I am curious and also open to exploring new kinks. P.S. - I have a big praise kink - giving and receiving; the less generic the better.

BDSM test results - 100% Brat/Rope bunny/Submissive, 94% Masochist (not a pain slut), 90% Voyeur, 68% Experimentalist, 62% Primal (Prey), 50% Vanilla, 41% Exhibitionist, 40% Slave, 4% Pet.

My hard limits are age/race play, needles/knife, permanent scarring, fire, blood/piss/scat/vomit - DEAL BREAKERS.

If interested, introduce yourself - name, age, height, location, why you think we'd match, favourite dessert or ice cream flavour to break the ice 😄. Mutual attraction is important so would prefer to swap pics early on.