Before writing the post, I need to point out that the reason I am looking for someone mature or slightly older as you prefer, is not due to a kink. My preference comes from the fact I have always considered myself more mature than my peers when it comes to emotional connection and empathy. On top of that, from my experience I (sadly) had to deal with younger partners that, despite being delightful people, were lacking when it comes to the written above level of connection.

So here I am, looking again for someone but with a little filter this time, hoping this will help to find the right person. As I said it's not a kink, any age is welcomed as long as you truly think of yourself as a mature person.

But why should you reach out to me? There are lots of posts on here that look for something along these same lines. A Dom looking for a Sub, you already know how it goes, and so do I. I could try to make this post more appealing by throwing in some boasting about myself but I prefer writing this my way: with full honesty. I am a good looking if that matters, but that is little compared to what I think my biggest strength in this is: I am a passionate person, looking to use this passion in most of the aspects of our communication, whether it's sensual or a very simple talk about our day. My style of domination, over my modest years of experience, has been shaped into more of a gentle style. I am a caring person at my core and I want a partner that understands and accepts this. Trust me, it's not been easy to find someone like that. But at the same time, I am also as intense in the sense of a bedroom, in this case, a digital bedroom.

Now, let me write few lines about why I am looking for something online and not in person, since it's a very common question I get asked. I will start saying that no, I don't think online dynamics are "less" than a in person one. The thing is, I am looking for a dynamic and not for a relationship. Something we both agree on, with a mutual respect towards our bond as Dom/Sub. On top of that, online makes it easier than in person since I'm not exactly surrounded by very open minded people.

Speaking of being open-minded, I am enough to not judge you if you reach out telling me you have a partner, that you're looking for a secret, that you're in a sort of open relationship or if you're completely single. It is not a deal breaker and as long as you can sleep at night in peace with yourself, I won't be the one judging you.

Let's talk about what I have in mind as a dynamic, shall we? First of all I appreciate someone that shows interest and effort. This dynamic is not something I will 'build' all by myself and for myself, it takes two people. Do not be dry, come on. We will need to agree on a common ground and make things work together. Overall, I am a sucker for sweetness, communication and quality of time. On top of that I have an high libido, I want to crave my partner. If you like the idea of being put on a (healthy) pedestal, I am your man. I have many kinks too and I will gladly discuss them together if you reach out, but I guess a little list won't hurt. Not in any particular order, I have some sadistic tendencies. I love light pain/impact play. I am also into praising mixed with degrading, worshipping, free use, cum play, anal, toys, teasing, orgasm control, funishments, denial. As for limits, I have few and I'm very far from kink shaming. I'm strictly not into scat, underage and illegal, exposing.

So what, you've made it this far and won't get in touch? Come on, I don't bite so don't be shy.