I am a Dom, daddy, rigger, and sadist, though Civilized Brute probably encapsulates it best. At times it erupts from me in jarring roughness and in others it is served in chillingly measured glances. All of this while manning the helm of a sub’s sensations and emotions in heightened and shared vulnerability: it is absolutely electric. A Dom takes more that what a sub offers but less what they’re willing to give.

To be certain, I have no deficit of confidence. I've made a life of pursuing ridiculous goals and doing to the actions daily to make it happen. How well can you handle masculine energy? I pursue mastery of myself and take yearly solo trips to reflect on what purpose and meaning I need for my life. But this is all grounded in a tremendous gratitude that I've had to good fortune, health, and incredible partners in my life along the way to help see it all to fruition. And it's tempered a deep humility that comes with being laid low several times and realizing how fragile and tenuous all of this is.

All of this makes me a solid presence in and out of scenes. It's an empathetic masculinity that initially wants to see you laugh and to connect with your humanity. It's a reliable foundation to explore the taboos you desperately need to feel. But it also fuels the Civilized Brute who takes control, savors the preparation, and burns in the fire of the moment.

I'm 43, 5'11", strong, 200lb, professional, with a salt-and-pepper beard and a roguish smirk. Not interested in ABDL, BBW, or 'online-only'.

I'm looking for partners with a sense of curiosity and who are in touch with their own desires. Level of experience is less important than excitement and engagement. If this doesn't scare you away say 'hi'. I'll take it from there. And let's have a few laughs about all this.

(Brat energy is catnip for me but isn't required)

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