Hi y'all! I'm Natalie, a 33 y/o trans woman with some very submissive tendencies and looking for a dom or domme that's relatively local to Philly! Can be online to start but being able to move to in person is a MUST if we click, not looking for a kinky pen pal here. Open to anything but a purely kink-based dynamic to satisfy our respective needs, to a longterm relationship if we really get along well

Kink-wise I'm into: degradation, humiliation, general masochism, bondage, orgasm control, anal play (receiving), control, training, hypno, punishment

I'm open to, but have not tried: petplay, caging, impact

Hard limits: scat, watersports, blood, permanent damage

Generally speaking what I hope for out of BDSM dynamic is a sense of giving up control and ownership over my own actions to someone else, someone I can fully trust myself in the hands of while being just a little bit afraid of the power they wield over me. In my day-to-day life I am generally pretty independent and value having a lot of control over my environment and my life, so in the bedroom and behind the scenes is where I really crave having the ability to give all that up and let someone make me feel like a helpless little slut I am :)

Outside of kink I'm a huge nerd, spent my entire life online and engrossed in hobbies like gaming (videogames, board games, TTRPGs, whatever), anime, history, and anything in the fantasy, sci-fi, or horror space. Also into fitness and fashion but those are more in the "things I like to do bc I like to look good" category lol. I'm also a staunch leftist, and while our politics don't necessarily need to line up 1:1 I do require that we at least share the same general values or we almost certainly won't get along well.

I've posted a few selfies on here lately so check my recent posts if you want to know what I look like! If we start talking I'd also greatly appreciate pics from you as well to get an idea of what you look like!

Hope to hear from some of you fine folks soon :)