Let's skip the standard. I could promise you how many butterflies and rainbows we will see together, how everything will feel like a dream. Or tell you right off the bat all the ways you’ll submit. Toss in some unearned possession. Show you a curated version of me. Tell you what you want to hear, even if it isn’t me. We both know those type of relationships don’t last. It’ll be fun for a few days, maybe a week, then someone will lose interest and fade away.

What I want is real. Raw. I want your highs, but I also want your lows. I want to know everything that’s happened in your life to make you the person you are today. I want to have the you that nobody in the real world gets. And when I have that you, I’ll protect her. Bring out the best. Make you feel supported and fulfilled in ways you dream of. Be vulnerable with me and those walls will come down easily. Imagine how good it will feel when you put all of yourself in my hands and feel safer than you ever have.

I'm naturally dominant, crave finding someone that wants to give me the sides of you that you wouldn't dare give others. Beyond that, I’d rather focus on building something that fits both our needs organically than give you a list.

I’m from the south central US, but not originally. I’m 6’4” and care for my body and mind well. I get to the gym a few days a week, stay active, focus on stress relief and mental health. I have a very successful career, I strive to be the best dad and husband I can be despite coming here to fill some voids. I’m horrible. But life is short and we deserve fulfillment. I love creating and building something, whether it be my sub, gardening, cooking/baking, building a successful business at work.

I travel quite a bit for work so your location isn’t terribly important. I love an adventure. My biggest dealbreakers are poor communication and saying that this has to stay online forever. I’d at least like the potential to feel you with me someday, even if it’s far off in the distance.

I’m not your standard, you shouldn’t be put into that box either. Come say hey and let’s start something that stands beyond the typical Reddit fling.