21 [F4M] #DC - Smart blonde looking for handsome sadist

About me *vanilla*: 21, blonde, college student. I'm extremely intellectually curious — always reading a nonfiction book — as well as professionally ambitious. Interests include history, sports, and reading books about parts of the world I've never been to. I pride myself on being fit and disciplined, looking for someone who holds themself to these same standards. I’m currently in DC, but open to connecting with anyone from DC up to NYC — I attend college in Philly.

About me *kink*: Submissive since before I knew what that word meant. Looking for a kind of sweet sadism -- condescension and pain, with a healthy dose of praise. I am a masochist, and need to be with a sadist. Someone who delights in my pain, both physical and psychological. I fantasize about any all kinds of pain and punishment, from spanking to things much more intense and convoluted. I also crave being teased or denied, and need my partner to enjoy teasing me often.

I love to feel like the object of someone's desires and on show for them. I don't have tons of experience in a dynamic (tried certain physical aspects of BDSM with a few partners), but have lots of fantasies of what I want to do. I'm not looking for anything 24/7, or slave-oriented. I'm very assertive and headstrong in my regular life, and not looking to change that.

Who I'm looking for: I need someone who would be considered attractive in real life, not just better than the average on an anonymous Reddit forum. Being attractive aesthetically to me includes a fit, muscular body type. This is a dealbreaker. As my title alludes to, I hold myself to a very high standard and extend that to my partners. I don't mean to come off as rude or snobby, but felt the need to include this to make it known what I am looking for. I will, of course, provide a photo of myself early to make sure we both are satisfied. Long story short, I am attracted to ambitious, intellectual, and outgoing men. Age-wise, looking for 21-35ish.

If this sounds like you and what you’re looking for, please shoot me a message introducing yourself, and include a (SFW) photo.