TL;DR: Soft(ish) pleasure Dom looking to build an intense and emotional connection with an amazing and wonderful woman. This would be built on a foundation of friendship, trust, communication and shared values and interests. Respectfully, you must identify with the following:

• Cis Woman
• Drug/Disease Free
• Monogamous
• Single/unattached
• Gainfully employed
• Currently child free.
• Desires marriage & children
• Physically fit/Active/Health focused.
• Prioritizes mental health.
• Willfully submissive (gentle playful bratting is fine)
• Shorter & slimmer ladies are strongly preferred.
• Open to eventual relocation if not in Texas.

Hard Limits: Heavy impact play, closed fists, intense pain, permanent marks, forced piercings/tattoos, animals, Dd/lg, age play, scat, puke, urine, blood, body mods, diapers etc. anything illegal.

Me: https://imgur.com/a/LR8rclD

I am 33, I am a non-smoker, Drug/Disease Free. 5'11" & 185 lbs. No piercings and no tattoos.

In my personal life I am a laid-back easy-going man with a healthy mixture of confidence, assertiveness & wit. I like to watch and observe first before I speak.

I am a certified Introvert. I deeply value my family and a small, intimate circle of friends. I prefer having friends & family over for game night, movie night, or dinner/drinks at a nice quiet restaurant/bar versus a loud venue with lots of people.

My primary love languages are Physical Touch & Quality Time. I am very touchy and affectionate in relationships, and I long to be around my Partner, even if we’re just sitting in the same room quietly doing separate things. Grocery store trips, dog walks, chore sharing, date nights, movie night cuddles, you wash & I’ll dry, and random flowers are just some of the more casual forms of intimacy that I enjoy. My Partner is always a priority, just as I want to be for her.

My hobbies and interests are pretty eclectic. Weight Lifting, Reading (Almost any subject), Art (abstract, minimalism, cubism), Cooking, Comics, Youth Mentoring, Hunting, Fishing, Camping, Hiking/National Parks, Traveling, Baseball (#Astros), Whiskey (Kentucky>Texas), Wine (Reds > Whites), and Home Improvement are the big ones.

I have a successful career, I love projects and staying busy, professionally and personally. I thrive on organization and routines. I have my own home, and I am financially stable.

Politically, I am very much about individual freedoms and liberty, something that we seem to be losing more and more of these days.

When it comes to religion, I would simply identify as spiritual.

D/s: is more than just sex for me, it's a lifestyle consisting of love, devotion, discipline, accountability and support. The sex is just the fun part.

An important distinction that I want to make is that while I enjoy being a Dom, it is not my identity. I am, and always will be a human first who happens to enjoy being a Dom.

In my mind there is no greater, or deeper, form of love, friendship, intimacy, communication & trust than that of two people who enter into a D/s dynamic. It is the most fulfilling feeling in the world for a woman to feel so loved, vulnerable, safe and protected that she is willing to give me the gift, & responsibility, of her consent and submission.

The one constant is that I am big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space, but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her.

I am not going to delve into specific kinks at this time, but to give you a broad idea: Free Use, Power Exchanges, Ownership and some light Humiliation & Degradation. We can discuss specifics once we get to know each other.

I am a loving, caring and affectionate Dom. But, I do lean towards the rougher end of the spectrum when it comes to playtime. However, I am not into heavy impact play.

During sex I am very loving, feral, aggressive, possessive and hedonistic. I love (consensually) exploring the limits of how much pleasure you can withstand, and then using you for my own pleasure. Ladies always cum first.

As much as I enjoy the sex, I equally enjoy aftercare, providing non sexual intimacy, and affection. I am a HUGE cuddle slut and certified Big Spoon. My favorite post scene ritual is soaking together in a hot bath.

I want to be your catharsis, comfort, accountability and pleasure rolled into one. Nurturing, supportive & sweet, yet firm & dominant. I will never demand your submission, I am patient, willing & able to earn your consent, trust and submission.  

You: You are passionate/driven/ambitious - but also dream of relinquishing control in trusted hands. You crave a wholesome and loving D/s relationship built on the principles of care, safety, structure, pleasure and discipline. The world sees an in control woman but I only I get the privilege of knowing what an obedient, kinky & submissive good girl you are.

You should value fitness and a healthy lifestyle, as well as prioritizing your mental health. I love a size difference so shorter and slim/petite ladies are strongly preferred.

While I am looking for a submissive to build a dynamic with, I want to be clear, I am primarily looking for a Partner. Like how I identify as a human, who happens to enjoy being a Dom, I am also looking for a woman who views herself in the same manner, just the opposite side of the slash.

Being submissive does not make you "worth less" than me. You are still my equal. You have a voice. You should be heard. You have value.

Conclusion: The length of my post is intended to provide you a glimpse of who I am and what makes me tick. Like any good Partner I am flexible to meet your needs. Everything is up for discussion and/or negotiation.

If this resonates with you, please reach out and introduce yourself by providing a bio and a full body (clothed) picture. Awkward mirror selfies are accepted! Blurred/covered faces are fine.

If politics, religion and recreational drug use are some of your main personality traits, then we are not a match.

Best of luck to you in your search.