I'm Drake, a 35 year old married kinky gamer looking for a play partner. I'm 5'9" dad bod with a shaved head and big beard. I am looking for a woman interested in some kinky play dates.

I want to start online and make sure we click before eventually moving to in person. I can host when we get to that point. To that end it would be preferable if we have some similar interests outside of kink, so that we have some common ground to make sure we click.

Kink wise my biggest are rope and hypnosis, but I have included my results from the bdsm test below. I am still exploring and I'm pretty easy going, so I am happy to experiment with a lot of kinks. Limit wise I won't do bathroom related, blood, minors, animal, and the like. I am a big believer in, "I am a dom, but not your dom." Meaning I am not going to start making demands or expecting you to call me titles just because you messaged me. If we get to the point of being in scene or having something long term, we will discuss what that looks like then.

On the vanilla side, I am a gamer. I play video games (Recently started Persona 5 Tactica), card games (TCG and more traditional ones), board games (I have a weekly game night with family), and tabletop (I'm in 2 pathfinder games currently). I enjoy tv, movie, and books, I enjoy fantasy, sci-fi, and comedy. I enjoy reading (Currently reading the Mushoku Tensei light novel and rereading Deadspawn and The Way of Kings). I enjoy anime and am watching That Time I got Reincarnated as a Slime, and about to start Tower of God S2.

I am married and a long distance sub, both of whom know I am looking for a play partner and are fine with it. Neither of them will be involved in this play. If things go well enough long term, maybe that will change if there is interest. I also have a daughter, but I have regular times that she visits my family.

If this interests you or you have questions, feel free to message me.

96% Rigger

88% Master/Mistress

87% Voyeur

86% Dominant

82% Degrader

75% Non-monogamist

73% Brat tamer

69% Experimentalist

66% Sadist

64% Exhibitionist

63% Owner

61% Primal (Hunter)

58% Primal (Prey)

49% Vanilla

42% Switch

40% Daddy/Mommy

37% Rope bunny

31% Ageplayer

28% Boy/Girl

26% Submissive

16% Masochist

15% Brat

13% Degradee

1% Pet

0% Slave