Hello out there, I hope you're doing well today.

I'll preface this by saying I know it won't appeal for anybody, but who knows, maybe you'll be the one it does appeal to.

I'm looking for something I think is a little different than most posts around here, in that rather than looking for the physical or overtly sexual aspects of BDSM, I'm really looking to focus on the mental aspects of submission. Sure, those other things can be exciting, thrilling, and stimulating, but I find it can be more fulfilling to engage in much simpler (dare I say boring) tasks that get you deeply into a submissive and obedient mindset. That's not to say we can't ever go in that direction, but we can use those things to add some spice to our main course of mental submission.

I have several ideas of directions we can take this, but a simple task I'd like to start with is something along the lines of supervised corner time. You will either be facing a corner or blindfolded and facing forward, and you will not be allowed to move or speak until the time is up. While this may sound incredibly boring, I hope you'll find that the through just standing still, you'll be forced to really think about how submissive and obedient you're being. And that any restlessness or discomfort you feel by staying completely still will end up being a little exciting more than boring. I hope it's somewhat meditative in that regard.

And what do I get out of this? Primarily the reward of seeing an obedient sub do as I have asked. Maybe I'll work on things and occasionally glance over at you and smile. Maybe I'll watch you intently, making absolute sure you don't move an inch (yes, there will be punishments if you do). Maybe I'll quietly masturbate to the sub on display while you're none the wiser. Your job isn't to worry about what I'm doing, it's to simply do as you're told, because it's really the act of following instructions, no matter how dull or pointless they may be, that turns you on more than anything.

As for me, I'm 29m, 5'11 170lbs, short brown hair and brown eyes, tan, short beard, single, no kids. I have a decent amount of experience, largely online but some irl. If this goes well, I'd love to get to know you on a more personal level and expand our activities beyond this initial idea, tailored to your likes but keeping true to this mental dynamic. However, if you're just looking for one-off nsa play, I'm perfectly ok with that as well.

As for you, I'm open cis females, any age 18 , and any body type, as long as this idea appeals to you. Since the goal is entirely around the mental aspects of submission, it's really your mindset and enthusiasm for this sort of dynamic that's important. I value privacy and will never ask you to show your face, and even nudity is entirely optional (again, really focused on the mental dynamic here).

If any of this appeals to you please send me a brief intro about yourself, why this appeals to you, and how you see it going. Since I know that can be kind of vague, here are a few more specific questions you could include in your message to help get you thinking about it and get the conversation started. 1) A little about yourself (age/sex/body description) 2) What appeals to you about a mental dynamic like this? 3) Any past BDSM experience (totally fine if not)? 4) How do you see it going? (Would you rather be facing a corner or blindfolded facing the camera? Would you rather be standing or kneeling? Would you rather have your arms at your side, behind your head, or folded behind your back? Would you rather be naked, or if not, what clothes would you wear? How long do you think you could last in that cornertime position?) 5) Is there any "spice" you'd like to incorporate (e.g. make the position more painful, add any sexual component, being degraded during it)? 6) Any other ideas in relation to mental submission you'd really like to explore? 7) Any other kink-related likes and limits in general?

I know this is a bit different and won't appeal to everyone, but if it happens to appeal to you, I hope to hear from you. Until then, hope you have a great day.