Hello! If this post is still up, DMs are welcome!

Just a few things I would like to preface with so as not to waste anyone's time.

1. I am queer and polyamorous, but I am only looking for ONE Dominant to enter into a dynamic with, and I would prefer a Dominant that does not have other submissives. My ideal version of polyamory is having a consistent 24/7 dynamic with a Dominant, while any other partners I have would be less kink-heavy, or just a vanilla relationship entirely.

2. I will only enter a D/s dynamic with someone who is emotionally ready for a committed relationship. We don't need to rush into things, and in fact I would much rather we take our time. But no casual kink here, sorry!

A little bit about me:

I have a successful career in healthcare and am quite independent. When I'm not working, I'm either traveling domestically or internationally, and I would love to meet someone who prioritizes traveling just as much as I do. I'm also INSANELY nerdy. I'm a huge film buff and go to the theaters multiple times a month, though I'm not so much into TV series. I love fantasy novels, art books/museums, video games (Elden Ring DLC anyone?), a little bit of anime/manga, and I'm absolutely obsessed with horror! Alien is my favorite horror movie of all time.

Of note, I do not shave at all, and have not shaved for years. I love my natural body hair, and I love it when my partners do the same. If this bothers you, please don't bother with me! For me, the hairier the better. I love me a big bear. 😈

All bodies, ethnicities, and genders welcome. I would love to meet up with more queer folk in the kink and poly scene, even if we end up not hitting it off. At the moment I'm only looking for those in NYC or who don't mind traveling to me. It would need to be a really, really strong relationship for me to consider something online/LDR.

While I am experienced in kink and have been in the scene since 2014, all of my experiences have been strictly in the bedroom, so I'm pretty new as far as 24/7 dynamics go. It is something that I've researched extensively however, and has been a desire of mine for years. I am in no rush to enter a dynamic with someone, and I really want to emphasize that an emotional connection is just as important as a sexual one. If we can't hang out and get to know each other without intimacy involved, I'm not interested.

100% a size queen, whatever that may mean. It is not a requirement for me for you to have large natural anatomy, but it wouldn't be a deterrent if you did. I also love big fingers and have a size kink in general. I'd love to explore primal play and being hunted down/chased.

My ideal version of a power exchange would be something where I have control over major changes in my life like job, health, etc, but am open to guidance and discussion. I'm not looking to be micromanaged in the sense I want to be told when I can use the bathroom or eat, but I love the idea of having rituals and routines and being rewarded based on that. Or even amplifying simple servitudes by making it a requirement that I make your morning coffee/tea while completely bare. I really just am a service sub that likes to be slapped around!! But I also gotta keep my Dom on their toes every now and then and be bratty. Because making Doms angry can be fun sometimes. ☺️ (I do have a strap and am happy to switch if you ever want a brief break.)

Some other things off the top of my head: collars/collaring ceremonies, breeding/creampies, anal play, choking, hair pulling, humiliation and degradation, watersports, calling my Dominant "Sir" or "Daddy", orgasm control/denial, edging, bondage/restraints, sensory deprivation, cock warming/cock nursing, impact play, and many, many others.

Limits: scat, any sort of Master/slave terminology, diapers/ageplay, human furniture, being told to lick someone's shoes or lick things off the floor, knives/needles, permanent branding/markings

If you made it this far, thank you!! I hope you enjoyed it, even if I might not entirely be your cup of tea. If you ARE interested, however, please feel free to DM/chat, and somewhere in your message let me know what your favorite movie is, OR let me know your dream vacation.

Looking forward to chatting!