Are you a woman in a “dead bedroom” or ordinary “vanilla” marriage with a secret, submissive side? Are you intelligent, confident, successful and generally in control of most other aspects of your life?  Are you craving some form of domination or control? Can you imagine a situation where an on-line exchange helps to satisfy this unfulfilled desire for you? Then perhaps we should chat.

I am a dominant man in a similar situation. This is an interest that is not shared by my wife. I am looking for a woman that is submissive or just has an interest in exploring her submissive thoughts and desires. But I am only interested in doing this on-line, by email or chat, in an ongoing exchange, with just one woman that strongly identifies with this situation.

You are sexually dissatisfied, but not looking to cheat on your partner. So you take care of your own needs by yourself, you fantasize, you masturbate. But even that becomes somewhat boring and not very satisfying. So let’s make it more interesting.

I like to give directions and be in control. My biggest interests are orgasm control, teasing and denial, and telling you when and how to masturbate. I want to give you a real sense of being under control and accountable by telling you when to do it, how to do it, what toys or objects to use, what to imagine while doing it.... and then deciding if and when you get to have an orgasm. I can send you very detailed instructions and directions to follow, and/or specific tasks and assignments that you would complete off-line. You will then report back to me with a detailed description of what you did, how you felt, etc. Or if our timing and schedules permit, I can give you specific instructions with instant messaging.

Ideally, you are a woman that is intelligent and confident, creative and expressive, and interested in honestly sharing the experience in detailed writing. That is the satisfaction I will get out of this… reading your accounts, sensing a genuine feeling of arousal and control from you, and hopefully fulfilling your need and void in an arousing way. The tasks, directions, instructions will evolve as I get to know you and learn how to push your buttons, but that all relates to how you describe your feelings, reactions and thoughts as you fulfill them.

I'm patient, intelligent, understanding, creative, and respectful. Yes, it is possible to be dominant and respectful, and you, your privacy and life obligations will always be respected. And, if you follow my instructions, you might have some of the best orgasms of your life!

Say hello if you connect with anything I wrote here, or even if you just find yourself intrigued!