Hey, thanks for checking me out, this is going to be a bit of a long post so let's get into it:

About Vanilla Me:

I'm a 26 year old Caucasian Male who leans on the bigger side, without being obese. Personality wise I'm generally pretty mellow and relaxed, but I can absolutely be goofy when the mood takes me. I'm told I take after my dad a lot and that's definitely a good thing. My sense of humour ranges from Dad Jokes to dry sarcasm to gallow's humour.

My interests are definitely on the nerdy side, I love learning about and working with animals (as well as Biology in general). I spend a fair amount of my free time reading and playing video games, although I'm excited to start getting into Tabletops. I also watch a bit of anime and enjoy most media that has anything to do with history and mythology. One of my biggest passions however is cooking, I love finding new recipes to try from around the world. I have a few other hobbies I'd love to take up but they're just too expensive at the moment, like archery and sailing. And while I'm generally a homebody by virtue of my hobbies, I'm totally down to go out and about to do stuff in town or in the outdoors.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for a romantic relationship. Someone I can be open with, and who can be open with me. I value people who are nerdy, intelligent and a bit silly, someone who can keep me on my toes and make me strive to impress them. I'm looking for someone who's willing to go on a couple dates, get to know each first, build up a bit of a relationship before jumping into sex and kink.

I've started to begin to tentatively identify as Finsexual. I don't care what genitals you have, but I am attracted to femininity and feminine presentation. This means Cis and Trans women, femboys and feminine enby's primarily.

I do have a handful of dealbreakers:

• Smoking/Drugs (Weed and Alcohol are okay as long as it's not something that's always a factor, and you're okay with me not wanting to partake in it)
• Dislikes Pets and Animals (I have 3 cats and a dog and I'm not giving them up for anyone)
• Polyamory (I'm not opposed to playing with others from time to time, but I would prefer to stay Monogamous 99% of the time)
• Science Denialist (Anti-Vaxx, Flat Earth etc, I'm a firm believer in humanity's ability to learn and advance and have no patience for going backwards due to conspiracy theories)

Kink:

I'm a Dom-Leaning Switch. I'd say I think of myself as 90% Dom, 10% sub these days. I do have sub fantasies from time to time, but for the most part I am comfortable being in a Dominant state. When it comes to kink, consent is huge for me. I hate the idea of dropping a new idea on someone or doing something that hasn't been negotiated. I've been told that's boring but I vehemently believe that that's a recipe for disaster.

As a Dom I very much tie a lot of how I enjoy it to one of my main kinks (see below) but as a simple summary I'm closer to a Master-Dom than a Daddy-Dom, but without any Sadism play. As a sub I'm less certain of, but I've recently become enamoured with the idea of the knight sub to his princess dom and I think something like that is very cute.

Experience-Wise I'm still learning and discovering myself. I know what my main kinks are, but I'm constantly discovering new lesser ones that interest me. I'm quite openminded but I do have a few limits, some hard ones but a few soft ones that I'd be open to discussing to opening up on.

Hard Limits:

• Anything Permanent or Illegal (Such as Scarification or Public Exposure)
• Scat
• Being called "Daddy" (I can elaborate on why if you'd like)

Soft Limits:

• Urine and Blood
• Ageplay/Raceplay (I'm very uncomfortable with the latter in particular, but I've read that it can be cathartic for some people so I'd be willing to open up to it in a more positive environment such as that)
• Hardcore Masochism/Sadism (I'm fine with lighter stuff, but anything more than that will take a lot of trust to be built up)
• Bratting (It's not something I can see myself enjoying as I am now, but I'd be open to having my mind changed about it)

Kinks:

• Deification (Essentially a form of a worship kink, it's a bit hard to summarize so I can go into more detail if you'd like)
• Service Submission (relates to the above dot directly)
• Orgasm Control, Denial, Forced Orgasms, Overstimming, Chastity Devices (Essentially anything to do with manipulating someone's arousal and orgasms in a forceful way)
• Free Use
• TPE
• Bondage (in particular, device bondage)
• Dollification
• Latex and Leather
• Body Modification
• Pegging/Anal

Conclusion:

If we hit it off I'd be happy to share a picture of myself as well as contact information, but I hope you understand if I don't share it on a forum in which just anyone can access right off the bat. I listed online as a potential, however I do wish to meet up at some point eventually if we hit it off. Thanks for reading to the end, I know it was a lot but I didn't want to leave anything important out so here's a pun:

Why did the poker players keep a cow hanging from the ceiling?

It was a high steaks game

Also as a little addendum my Reddit has been bugging out with messages lately so if you send me something and I don't reply, try sending me a chat instead, it seems to work okay. Or Vice Versa, I try to reply to every message so if you don't hear from me it's probably because I didn't see it.