Hi! As the title says, I'm seeking a femdom or cuckold relationship.
About me:
Career goals: med student in NYC.
Gender: I identify mainly as a man, but I have a femme side I would like to explore someday (maybe you can help with that)
Sexuality: Pansexual with a femme lean
Hobbies: I play piano and am kind of a music theory nerd. I also write music occasionally and play video games from time to time.
Physical: I'm 5'5" (perfect to throw around 😊) with an average body. I have a pretty nice butt :P
I want to be upfront that I unfortunately can't host if it comes around to that. I'd prefer someone who can host in upper Manhattan, Queens, or the Bronx.
What I'm looking for: a mutually fun and trusting connection with a femdom and/or cuckold power dynamic. I wouldn't say I'm looking for the love of my life or a monogamous relationship, but I want something more than just hooking up.
My kink interests:
I identify as a switch, but I'm currently looking to be more submissive. I would be open to a dynamic where we switch, but that's certainly not required and I will not ever push for it.
As a sub, I identify with more of an obedient, cuckolded, weak "beta male" archetype. I'm a huge emotional masochist (physical too, but less so). I'm not a brat at all. I'm also very much into gentle femdom as well, and I'm open to both gentle or rough dynamics (or both). I don't want to make a list of kinks here because I value the general vibe/dynamic more. Of course, once we start getting to know each other, I'd love to trade kinks to see if we have anything specific in common :)
My most compatible partner:
Note: none of these are requirements/requests or anything like that, it's just a description of things I like so you can see if we're compatible
Someone who enjoys being both a gentle and rough dom - not required, but definitely a plus.
As a rough domme: someone who enjoys a power dynamic based on heavy humiliation/degradation and emotional/psychological sadism. If you revel in torturing weak men and making them suffer, you and I might be pretty compatible 😉.
As a gentle domme: someone who enjoys "cute", affectionate sex with praise and all that other cute stuff 🙂
Cuckolding is not required, but is definitely a huge plus. As above, we can talk about this more later.
Outside of our dynamic, my ideal domme is someone who is caring and sweet. This leads me to my next point -
Aftercare:
I'm a big physical touch person, so cuddling and kissing is my #1 form of aftercare. Closely following that is kind words.
As a general rule, the more degrading our play is, the more aftercare I'll need.
Please let me know what your preferred form of aftercare is and how I can care for you after our scenes! This is super important to me, as I want to make sure you feel good too :)
If you're interested in this, send me a DM or chat message with your age, location, a rough physical description, and what traits your ideal sub would have. We can go from there. Thanks! :)
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