I am a 32 year old man, who has enjoyed bdsm both as casual encounters, as well as prolonged dynamics in the past. I posted here a month ago and met some good people but ultimately didn't find the lasting connection I was seeking.

Physically I am 180 cm tall, with reddish hair and and keep myself in decent shape, and enjoy drawing in my free time.
I find myself at a point in my life where I'm craving a deeper connection with a submissive, that could potentially flourish into something permanent.
I am seeking someone who knows deep down that they are broken.

It might seem like a cruel thing to add suffering to your life, but deep down I expect that you can agree that it is only right.
As much as I appreciate mental sadism I think it is important to point out that I am not motivated by hatred, or disdain. I find it cathartic to allow someone to exist as they are meant to be, and seen for who they truly are. I want a submissive to view me as a safe harbor, someone who understands that being perfect, good, or even alright might sometimes be too much for them. I want them to know that I recognize their brokenness, and that I do not hate them for it.

Maintaining the facade drains a little piece of your soul each day you have to pretend, and I want to be the person that you can finally fall apart for.

Ironically there is a nurturing aspect to the abuse I offer, and I seek to use degradation and cruelty as a means to reduce someone to the point that they are relieved of the autonomy they never asked for.

As our connection grows it is my goal to strive towards a TPE dynamic. This is naturally something that we would work towards over time, as I am very conscious of the immense amount of trust, effort and willpower required to take charge of a submissive in such a way.
If what I have written resonates with you, don't hesitate to reach out. I don't mind answering questions you might have, or even just talking about your interests to see if they align with mine.