hi!

After some time looking online, I’m ready to start looking for a dom (preferably a woman) in person. But before I get into kinks, let’s make sure we’re looking for the same thing. I’ve realized over the years that I prefer doing “non-sexual” bdsm things with a partner over just plain fucking. Examples would be tasks, punishments, bondage, making me follow you around on a leash all day, etc. I’m into edging and like sexual humiliation and would love to cum for you at some point, I’m just not looking for sex (oral or otherwise) specifically. Hopefully that makes sense. Or, if that sounds dumb to you, totally fine – just move on!

As far as kinks, my biggest are humiliation and bondage. I love getting tied up and teased, confined, and objectified. My default mode is bratty and I love a partner who’s down to struggle with me ;) I like feeling ‘trained’ and controlled, almost like my partner is a fucked-up parent. (On that note I also love roleplay and stuff like that.) Cnc is a big one for me as well. Basically, if it involves me being unwilling and scared and humiliated, I’m interested. My limits are mostly the usual no-disgusting things, and we can get into more specifics if we talk more.

I am not looking for something exclusive or serious. I enjoy taking things seriously during scenes, but I prefer people who are flexible and not looking to control me when we’re not together (unless we discuss something specific). I’m also open to scenes with multiple (consenting!) people eventually. An ideal situation would be something regular and consistent but not overwhelming lol. Most of all, please remember that this is an online group and I will definitely be taking my sweet time getting to know people before disclosing personal details, pictures, specific location, etc. I have zero tolerance for pushiness.

I’m white, midsize/kinda thick athletic body, hourglass, and pale. Perky tits & blonde. I prefer midsize-athletic build people with darker features who are a bit taller, looks-wise. Again, I’d prefer a woman or a couple, but I’m open to chatting with men or others if we get along.

Thanks so much for the read! If you’re interested in dragging me around by my hair at some point in the future, send me a message with your age, gender, general location, and your vibes as a dom.